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I miss being an unemployed loser...

batman12

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Honestly, I’m not an expert so I don’tbreally know if I’m having an attainability issue or something, but honestly, I had such an easier time with the ladies when I was an unemployed loser.

Yea most ladies didn’t see a long term future with me, but shit it was a lot easier ... No matter what I do, I feel like every girl slow games me nowadays... maybe it’s covid. Who knows.

But honestly, fuck attainability...
 

mist

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Take responsibility for your social feedback.

Currently I'm at a stage where women aren't jumping out of windows to see me again or even really aiding me in isolating her.

This could be an issue of bad luck. I could make this wholly external, but what's more fun is acknowledging my part in the feedback.

I'm not really going to tell you what's up with me and my situation. It's off topic.

What I will say is if you changed this thread's topic to something like

"How can I use attainability?"
"Articles on attainability?"

etc you'd have a legion of guys ready to give you some info.

Then you wouldn't " miss being an unemployed loser.."

Even more importantly you might drop your
But honestly, fuck attainability...

Because you'll have knowledge and practical advice and or healthier mindsets to work with attainability.

Do you want to whine or win?

Don't Hate the Player. And Don't Hate the Game | Girls Chasehttps://www.girlschase.com › article › mindsets › dont-...

Peace
 

Vision

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Or here are a few more questions...

"How can I get the same results I did when I was unemployed?"
"Is there something about that I was saying or doing that made women want to hook up with me faster when they didn't see me as relationship material that I can do now?"
"How can I replicate what I was doing before, now, and get the same results even though I'm in a better position?"
"Am I saying or doing something now that's making women take me more seriously as a potential partner instead of just looking at me as a guy they want to hook up with?"

It's known that when a woman doesn't see a guy as relationship material, she'll often go faster with him... because she doesn't care.

That's a strategy guys use to get with women. You can trigger that even if you're in a better economic status.
 

sejinlee09

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Man, does everyone else get the similar results when you tell women youre unemployed?
 

ulrich

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Man, does everyone else get the similar results when you tell women youre unemployed?
It’s not just telling, it’s actually looking the part.

Not that you need to be unemployed but you need to give the impression that you have nothing to offer but sex and maaaaaybe company.
That gets you out of boyfriend zone like a charm.
 

Skills

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Causation correlation, being unemployed is a display of lower value lowers your odds instead of helping... the op makes tons of mistakes when gaming, nothing to do with being unemployed, such as after a girl going radio silence cause he ask her out double down and ask her to make out via text.. 0 to do with being unemployed, stop with this mindset cause you are totally mis diagnosing your problems...
 

POB

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Man, gotta be honest.
You are just using "getting laid" as an excuse for your lack of ambition.

Nothing against staying 100% out of the system (if that's your thing) but there are better ways to be completely free:
(hint: it involves hustling A LOT and building your own biz)
 

Rain

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Razorjack had/has lots of money and he was a rank6 member on the forums here... and if that's true that means that's an example of someone who had lots of money or assets or etc and was still good with women if I'm understanding correctly. But he was also in a LTR as well when he was on here iirc.

Did Razorjack get good with women before he built his business/money or after that?
 
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Skills

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Razorjack had/has lots of money and he was a rank6 member on the forums here... and if that's true that means that's an example of someone who had lots of money or assets or etc and was still good with women if I'm understanding correctly. But he was also in a LTR as well when he was on here iirc.

Did Razorjack get good with women before he built his business/money or after that?
After... but you can do both, the mistake is getting lazy and leading with money I speak about this with razor and others guys in detail that experience an identity change due to drastic money increases, again that has nothing to do with op... op is a beginner that is miss diagnosing problems such as onitis, bad texting, bad strategy etc... here is the discussion in case you are interested https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...those-of-you-that-complain-about-money.21900/
 
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