I miss seduction

[Palpability]

I started catching feelings.

I've been playing around for a few months, and doing relatively well for myself. (In regards to social sexual seduction)

I feel like a goober now though, A hired-gun I've had my eye on for about a year (I do not chase hired-guns) ran a line at me a couple of weeks ago. So I hopped on it, I've been seeing this girl for about a week now, the convenience is roping me in. The problem i'm having is that all of my training is flying out of the window. I'm investing, being thoughtful, dreaming, day dreaming, heart beating and feeling. It makes me want to puke. I need the tables to turn NOW.

She's narrowly invested, if I don't, she does. I do, so she doesn't. She knows I pulled the big cut, and put stops on all of women I had been pursuing/pursued by. That was my first mistake right? I refuse to spend money on women that haven't earned a penny. Typically. I mean I haven't over done it, small thoughtful things that show what I see and that i'm listening. I'm not saying I don't want to be with this girl. I just need her to want me more than I want her, I know she likes the chase more than I do. I can see it in those piercing brown eyes. The sexual tension is delicious.

Consider this post an old-timey boxer. Taking all comers.

Help your boy subdue his passionate intensity.

(how do I cut off texting without making her feel rejected)
(how do I up face to face time while cutting time off of tele-communication)
(how do I put in effort effortlessly)
(what are some paths of interaction to commit without coming off as needy)
(how do i stay desirable while putting off women)

My whole life I have been the type to not notice the lot when I've got what I want.
I've made it quite clear that I could use some help not fucking this right up.

 

[Zoro]

Emotions are good.

Just stop thinking so much. Introspection is great, but only when coupled with action.

To address your bullet points:

1)Just text her less (only set up logistics), but be warm.
2)the above addresses this too
3) read up on the law of least effort. You still have to put in effort. Imagine a professional skateboarder. He will make hard tricks look easy. He put in thousands of hours to get that good.
4) Just get her out in person. If she's not interested move on.
5) Why are you putting off meeting women?

You should always be meeting women. A man with no options becomes needy. A man lacking options is not desirable.

Honestly, there's a bigger reality check I want to give you, but I'm having a major brain fart at the moment.

Don't "subdue" that passion. Channel that. You're alive, a red blooded male. Get out there dammit.

 

[Palpability]

You're right, I set up a couple dates with other women for the upcoming weeks. This one's supposed to come to me tonight.

Haven't hit it yet, should have when she gave me all the open windows. Threw the rules away on this one.

Thanks for the help.

 

[Palpability]

Update: Reverse chase, Success. Value reestablished and growing.

Thanks for the words of encouragement, i'll still be going on the dates I lined up. (FOR the sake of PLAY)

 

[Palpability]

Honestly, there's a bigger reality check I want to give you, but I'm having a major brain fart at the moment.

Could you elaborate on this still?