I need to start a new life. How can I go about it?

[Cacc]

I need to get away from my house, my family, and my life. It's time for a new one.

I've been provided for always in my life, and I've never had a real say in anything. Every time I want to do something I always have to rely on someone else to provide the necessary things to make it happen. Money, transportation, etc. This caused me to rebel against a lot of things in my life.

It looks like my family has stopped caring about helping me achieve my dreams. No more help. I'm not even being fed properly these days. Just people breathing down my neck screaming at me to conform.

I don't want to live like this anymore. I don't want to rely on others for everything anymore. I'm just tired of being a fucking loser man... '


How can I go about recreating this dream life? I'm not even asking for a perfect life, or a good life for that matter. I'm asking for a life where I get to make my decisions and I get to suffer my own consequences.

This is all I ask. How can I go about it?

P.S: Essentially, how can I live by myself with enough income for basic needs, while having some considerable time to chase my dreams? Once I become better at my dream, good enough to get paid for it, I won't have to worry about money anymore.

So I need to find a way to have my own place, and just generally, survive till I become good enough to achieve my dream. Which shouldn't take more than a year to get to a point where I'd be able to make money from it.

Thanks

 

[Cacc]

Something in the nightlife industry sounds like it'd be a good deal? If I can work and become better at socializing it'd kill 2 birds with one stone.

What jobs in the nightlife industry can help hone your social expertise other than bartending?

I have absolutely no experience. But I'm quite socially apt. (been living off people since I was born). I know how to deliver a good impression and get people to really like me.

 

[lao che]

more details are necessary here, esp re: your current station in life. it's a a fucking big world though, and it's at your feet right now.
if you're living with your parents i strongly recommend moving out, do it now, worry about the how later. i know that sounds rash, but you're never gonna be more ready than you are right now, and things will fall into place if you just go for it.