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JimmyB

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Oct 27, 2014
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I'd say like 90%+ of the girls I've slept with I met in a bar. A lot of them I knew through school but met at a bar, but also plenty of randos at random bars. I'm getting tired of the whole scene. I don't actually enjoy drinking all that much - I just do it to meet girls. I don't feel all that committed to going and approaching girls because I don't expect much of people at a bar. I'm just finishing school now and going to get a job soon. I have no work experience. What jobs, other than a bar (which I'm considering) could I do where I meet a lot of people who might be more like minded? Where else can I go to meet girls maybe more similar? Does anyone on here actually recommend online dating? I have used tinder in the past, but are there any sites actually worth checking out? I'm 23.
I know it's a bit broad, but any opinions are welcome. Thanks
 

Lotus

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Modern Human
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JimmyB,

You have identified what you don't like but you haven't told us anything about what you do like.

To find girls similar to you your going to have to go to places where they go. Do you like to read?- go the bookstores or the library. Do you like sports? join a coed sports team. There are plenty of ways to meet like minded girls, you just have to put forth the effort to look for them.

Also, there are guys here who do night game and do it sober, such as Mr. Rob. So if you still want that social immersion without the drinking you can go that route.

-Lotus
 
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