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I want to video myself approaching to get critiques. But is there a way to do that privately?

jaythedon

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Basically the title. I know field reports are great but video is probably the best bet.
What I want to know is, is there a private way to upload my videos in order to get some critiques on my approaches?
 
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James D

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Best is to get a private coach and show him the videos.

Not all coaches are willing to do this so do your research first.

And it'll cost. Probably a lot if it's a good coach. The flipside is you get to shave years, if not decades, in your journey.

If I were to start out again and I had the money, I'd do that.

Videos of me approaching, trying to firl and even recordings on dates.

You might be doing a bunch of things wrong but you're totally oblivious to them.

A coach can spot it.

I bet that's as close as you can get to super fast improvement.
 

average_daygamer

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Best is to get a private coach and show him the videos.

Not all coaches are willing to do this so do your research first.

And it'll cost. Probably a lot if it's a good coach. The flipside is you get to shave years, if not decades, in your journey.

If I were to start out again and I had the money, I'd do that.

Videos of me approaching, trying to firl and even recordings on dates.

You might be doing a bunch of things wrong but you're totally oblivious to them.

A coach can spot it.

I bet that's as close as you can get to super fast improvement.

Basically the title. I know field reports are great but video is probably the best bet.
What I want to know is, is there a private way to upload my videos in order to get some critiques on my approaches?

Get a friend to film you with their phone doing approaches, then upload them to YouTube as "unlisted" and post them here.

Very simple.
 

Aussiedude

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Blur out your and the girl's face then send it to the guys you feel like you can trust in this forum in direct messages.
 
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