I copy paste the message exchange from the night before we met, just because you'd think you wouldn't get a girl after you pushed and chased so hard, but again never say never, no blanket rules, especially when a girl seem so receptive to you.
ARRIVAL AT THE HOTEL
The day after she's actually down to meet again, she comes in front of my hotel late again, around 2am maybe after she had been to a dinner and then out with some client (or so she said).
It was my last night there.
She's hungry and looking around, I suppose expecting some more life there.
But it’s totally desert at this time.
She realized there’s only the hotel basically and she’s nervous.
I say there’s a bar up the road or we can buy something at the 24h shop close by.
She bulks, she’s shy and nervous.
So after a while I just push for the decision: “come, let’s go to the shop”.
She buys some shitty cold meal, I joke with the clerk if she can make an exception and sell me a beer (it’s forbidden at this time) and this makes her laugh.
I talk to her and joke around a bit to make her more comfortable.
She picks some coins without bending over, and I joke that she wanted to hide her ass from me, so introducing some sexual undertones to the joking.
IN THE HOTEL
There are two chairs and they are both far away with a table in the middle.
Not really the best situation, but she’s eating so it’s alright and we can talk.
Her English is bad and she covers her mouth while talking. She’s a bit insecure, but after a while she starts warming up.
THE KISS
I get up to go to the toilet, planning to kiss her while I walk back to my chair.
But as I am passing near her, she begins eating a bit more. I wait a bit awkwardly around.. but I don’t mind too much.
I wait, start touching her around the back and when she’s done I lean in for the kiss.
Big work from my side, she’s sitting and I’m sticking around standing, waiting and then leaning for her. But hey, it’s the high time to make a move, and making a move trumps looking relaxed and cool.
She moves her face, partially as a reflex and partially because there was onion in her food and she’s again shy.
I have to re-get up but I stick around, I have to make this kiss stick or if I go sit it will look bad.
I kid her a bit for being so shy, then go for it again and this time I give a peck on her lips.
I get up, say, “ohhh, see? Was it such a big deal?” and go sit again on my chair (fuck having no couch!)
RINSE AND REPEAT
I do the same move of getting up and going there 3-4 times, now going a bit more deeply with the kiss and touching a bit more, belly and a bit of boobs.
MOVING TO THE BED’S EDGE
Then she goes to the toilet and I go sit on the bed.
She doesn’t want to come sit near to “look at something on my phone”, so I sit talking from there for a while, then go back for another quick kissing/touching, insist she sits close to me and she finally does.
THE STRUGGLE
Now begins the struggle, which will last for a while.
I don’t really make out much, she’s not into it (still shy about her onion eaten) and I’m not too much into it either, the position is not comfortable to make out and I’m not much into making out anyway.
It lasts quite a while though I don’t really know how long. Maybe 30 minutes to finally have her in bra and panties.
SHE NEEDS TO GO THE TOILET.. OR DOES SHE?
As she’s in bra and panties, it’s still a huge struggle I’m wondering if it will ever happen since she has to wake up very early to go work and doesn’t really seem much horny at all.
At a certain point she says she needs to go to the toilet.
I fear a bit here. I say “she can go” and stand between her and the clothes I’ve already taken off. We both stand there and laugh and I wonder… Was this really a move to get some respite and possibly take back some of her stuff to wear?
In any case, now I know going to the toilet wasn’t urgent, so I pick her up and put her back on the bed (God she was lightweight! Much more than I expected given her height)
I WILL DO IT IF…
And here it comes the punch line. She seems almost ready and tells me to stop and listen to her, this time she says it so many times and with much more conviction that I stop and listen.
It feel likes the final objection/hurdle is about to come and we will finally end this game, either in the positive or negative way (positive way seems much more likely).
And here it comes.
“I will do it if….. You give me money”
What da fuck :S
It was actually the second time she said that, but before was much more quickly and during steamier situations so I let it slip.
But now it really registered well and it really was her wish.
Fuck it, I ignore it again and continue to insist she takes her bra/panties off.
CHANGE OF TACK: DOMINANCE/AGGRESSIVE
I still need to prepare the luggage, I will have a girl coming over in the morning to take me to airport, I am getting tired and I am getting tired of insisting… and I’m getting pissed she asked for money too!
I tell her a couple of times “I want you to take your panties off”, but this time very very serious and dominant, basically like an order and borderline aggressive too maybe. Never before had I spoken like this in such a situation, I feel it’s too much to almost order a girl to take off their panties. I would have never come up with such an attitude in any normal situation.. But here I was with a girl who was asking me for money, you lose a bit (a lot!!) of respect and get a bit pissed.
I wouldn’t recommend to do it ever, it’s a very thin line that would not sit well with many girls, can seriously backfire and.. I feel it’s also disrespectful even when it works well.
PANTIES OUT
Finally she removes the panties.
Was it because of my tone or was it because she was finally ready? Hard to say. Probably she was ready by now as before
I eat her out and finger to warm her up as… She wasn’t horny at all.
She get a bit wet, but not much.
I insert my penis.
THE ACTUAL SEX
She doesn’t enjoy it all, she doesn’t even feel discomfort when I go harder, nor is there any status change.
I had a GF who had no vaginal sensitivity at all in the past, though she could come via clitoral stimulation.
This might the case and it might explain why so much resitance and not much arousal.
Well, the good news is that I enjoy it… And a lot, she’s hot, has a great body and I’m super horny
.
When I realize she won’t come any time soon I announce I will be doing so and then proceed.
THE BOYFRIEND AND THE RECORDING
I wasn’t angry with her for the money thing… but I was a bit worried (yeah, I do am a bit paranoid).
How can you really trust a girl who’s asking you for money?
What if she now threatens me, or what if she comes up with some BS rape story?
She goes to shower and I start recording, both via laptop and via phone.
I tell her I’m glad she’s here, talk a bit, ask her if she wants to take a sandwich with her and she says… “no sandwich, I want your heart”. Sounds freaky and I ask her to repeat, her English is not too good, she meant in a romantic way and that’s all I needed to hear, it was proof enough that even the dumbest lawyer would have won the case with it.
She now also shows me pics of some dude in Korea, supposedly her BF and she says "I'm a bad girl". Not really, just a bit of a slut, I think. And say “quite a good looking dude for being Asian”.
I always tend to think honestly, so I’m always a bit surprised when I found out she has a BF afterwards. I don’t keep tabs, but I wouldn’t surprised if around a third of the girls I slept with had a BF or were at least seeing someone.
I walked her out for a taxi, which she paid for as well, of course.
Now we're even FB friends and she "really hopes" we'll meet again.
Yep, in the off-chance that'll ever happen I'll make sure to ask beforehand is she wants to charge for it
HER:
Hi
ME:
Hello Joy.
What are you doing now
(from now on alternates her/me)
Nothing
I just finished with meet friend
You are at home?
And I will go back my home now
Where are you?
Perfect, let's meet for a drink now before you go
Ahaha
Where are you?
You real wanna see me?
Sure, it will be fun
Ahaha
Yes
I am close where we met before
Oh
There are many bar
My home near there
Perfect, see you in front of McDonald at 12:20?
Ahaha
I am still at XXX
OK, 12:30 better?
Ahaha
Sorry, 12:30 can't
What time can you make
Around 2am
Maybe
sorry to llate
Hmm ok we can try 2am (<-----I didn't have to work and I was kinda desperate to get some TBH
Nice picture BTW
one hour later
Hi
Lux
Sorry for answer too late
Now I am still at xxx
Let's make xxx, it's very nice there (<---- it's actually where my hotel is)
you bringing a beer for being late?
Sorry, my friend is drunk so i take them back home, now i will go back home
I'm so tired
live a little, this is our only chance
It will be fun
Where are you?? Now
At XX
xx is a bar?
it's a place with bars and shopts, all taxy drivers know it (<-----they were all closed though)
ahaha, taxi don't kno there
lol sure they do, did you ask
yes,i ask alrady
then say xxx road 286/1
I will be in front
it's ok lux
take your time
we can meet tomorrow
Come now
tomorrow i won't be able, this is our chance
are you near same place we met?
with a taxi it's like 3 minutes
lux...
joy..
tomorrow i have to go to work
let's just do this
so we can meet tomorrow?
you're too young to give up on a great time
stop a cab and tell him take me to "xxx"
ahaha
i am at my home now
he don't know xx
it's the same, still only 5 minutes
I see
But now i am at my home already
Sorry lux
just come out, it will be worth it
ahaha
you should go to sleep lux
too late now
we will se tmr evening ok?
now i so tired
sorry
Joy, i want your night to be even more joyful
and trust me it's not by going to sleep now
But hey, if you wanna be boring and sleep alone then.. don't lemme stop you
lucio
we can see tmr
Good night *image*, that's the Line image for Joy (<------ basically a joke to make the refusal lighter)
ahaha
thank you
and have a good night
and nice to see you today
ARRIVAL AT THE HOTEL
The day after she's actually down to meet again, she comes in front of my hotel late again, around 2am maybe after she had been to a dinner and then out with some client (or so she said).
It was my last night there.
She's hungry and looking around, I suppose expecting some more life there.
But it’s totally desert at this time.
She realized there’s only the hotel basically and she’s nervous.
I say there’s a bar up the road or we can buy something at the 24h shop close by.
She bulks, she’s shy and nervous.
So after a while I just push for the decision: “come, let’s go to the shop”.
She buys some shitty cold meal, I joke with the clerk if she can make an exception and sell me a beer (it’s forbidden at this time) and this makes her laugh.
I talk to her and joke around a bit to make her more comfortable.
She picks some coins without bending over, and I joke that she wanted to hide her ass from me, so introducing some sexual undertones to the joking.
IN THE HOTEL
There are two chairs and they are both far away with a table in the middle.
Not really the best situation, but she’s eating so it’s alright and we can talk.
Her English is bad and she covers her mouth while talking. She’s a bit insecure, but after a while she starts warming up.
THE KISS
I get up to go to the toilet, planning to kiss her while I walk back to my chair.
But as I am passing near her, she begins eating a bit more. I wait a bit awkwardly around.. but I don’t mind too much.
I wait, start touching her around the back and when she’s done I lean in for the kiss.
Big work from my side, she’s sitting and I’m sticking around standing, waiting and then leaning for her. But hey, it’s the high time to make a move, and making a move trumps looking relaxed and cool.
She moves her face, partially as a reflex and partially because there was onion in her food and she’s again shy.
I have to re-get up but I stick around, I have to make this kiss stick or if I go sit it will look bad.
I kid her a bit for being so shy, then go for it again and this time I give a peck on her lips.
I get up, say, “ohhh, see? Was it such a big deal?” and go sit again on my chair (fuck having no couch!)
RINSE AND REPEAT
I do the same move of getting up and going there 3-4 times, now going a bit more deeply with the kiss and touching a bit more, belly and a bit of boobs.
MOVING TO THE BED’S EDGE
Then she goes to the toilet and I go sit on the bed.
She doesn’t want to come sit near to “look at something on my phone”, so I sit talking from there for a while, then go back for another quick kissing/touching, insist she sits close to me and she finally does.
THE STRUGGLE
Now begins the struggle, which will last for a while.
I don’t really make out much, she’s not into it (still shy about her onion eaten) and I’m not too much into it either, the position is not comfortable to make out and I’m not much into making out anyway.
It lasts quite a while though I don’t really know how long. Maybe 30 minutes to finally have her in bra and panties.
SHE NEEDS TO GO THE TOILET.. OR DOES SHE?
As she’s in bra and panties, it’s still a huge struggle I’m wondering if it will ever happen since she has to wake up very early to go work and doesn’t really seem much horny at all.
At a certain point she says she needs to go to the toilet.
I fear a bit here. I say “she can go” and stand between her and the clothes I’ve already taken off. We both stand there and laugh and I wonder… Was this really a move to get some respite and possibly take back some of her stuff to wear?
In any case, now I know going to the toilet wasn’t urgent, so I pick her up and put her back on the bed (God she was lightweight! Much more than I expected given her height)
I WILL DO IT IF…
And here it comes the punch line. She seems almost ready and tells me to stop and listen to her, this time she says it so many times and with much more conviction that I stop and listen.
It feel likes the final objection/hurdle is about to come and we will finally end this game, either in the positive or negative way (positive way seems much more likely).
And here it comes.
“I will do it if….. You give me money”
What da fuck :S
It was actually the second time she said that, but before was much more quickly and during steamier situations so I let it slip.
But now it really registered well and it really was her wish.
Fuck it, I ignore it again and continue to insist she takes her bra/panties off.
CHANGE OF TACK: DOMINANCE/AGGRESSIVE
I still need to prepare the luggage, I will have a girl coming over in the morning to take me to airport, I am getting tired and I am getting tired of insisting… and I’m getting pissed she asked for money too!
I tell her a couple of times “I want you to take your panties off”, but this time very very serious and dominant, basically like an order and borderline aggressive too maybe. Never before had I spoken like this in such a situation, I feel it’s too much to almost order a girl to take off their panties. I would have never come up with such an attitude in any normal situation.. But here I was with a girl who was asking me for money, you lose a bit (a lot!!) of respect and get a bit pissed.
I wouldn’t recommend to do it ever, it’s a very thin line that would not sit well with many girls, can seriously backfire and.. I feel it’s also disrespectful even when it works well.
PANTIES OUT
Finally she removes the panties.
Was it because of my tone or was it because she was finally ready? Hard to say. Probably she was ready by now as before
I eat her out and finger to warm her up as… She wasn’t horny at all.
She get a bit wet, but not much.
I insert my penis.
THE ACTUAL SEX
She doesn’t enjoy it all, she doesn’t even feel discomfort when I go harder, nor is there any status change.
I had a GF who had no vaginal sensitivity at all in the past, though she could come via clitoral stimulation.
This might the case and it might explain why so much resitance and not much arousal.
Well, the good news is that I enjoy it… And a lot, she’s hot, has a great body and I’m super horny
.When I realize she won’t come any time soon I announce I will be doing so and then proceed
.THE BOYFRIEND AND THE RECORDING
I wasn’t angry with her for the money thing… but I was a bit worried (yeah, I do am a bit paranoid).
How can you really trust a girl who’s asking you for money?
What if she now threatens me, or what if she comes up with some BS rape story?
She goes to shower and I start recording, both via laptop and via phone.
I tell her I’m glad she’s here, talk a bit, ask her if she wants to take a sandwich with her and she says… “no sandwich, I want your heart”. Sounds freaky and I ask her to repeat, her English is not too good, she meant in a romantic way and that’s all I needed to hear, it was proof enough that even the dumbest lawyer would have won the case with it
.She now also shows me pics of some dude in Korea, supposedly her BF and she says "I'm a bad girl". Not really, just a bit of a slut, I think. And say “quite a good looking dude for being Asian”.
I always tend to think honestly, so I’m always a bit surprised when I found out she has a BF afterwards. I don’t keep tabs, but I wouldn’t surprised if around a third of the girls I slept with had a BF or were at least seeing someone.
I walked her out for a taxi, which she paid for as well, of course.
Now we're even FB friends and she "really hopes" we'll meet again.
Yep, in the off-chance that'll ever happen I'll make sure to ask beforehand is she wants to charge for it
