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I wish I could be small enough to fit in your pocket and go with you

Swati

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"I wish I could be small enough to fit in your pocket and go with you...."

What's up guys, I've been still fucking! Recently, my game has been learning languages and working on my social frames not going to be total iron balls during approaching, having girls approach me missing signs and shit. Disappointing.

This beautiful girl, who I met online
(to be honest, this is the FIRST 9 I've ever gotten)

I'm an exotic ethnicity and exactly her type. She has tattoos in my language and she is currently learning the language and listens to music as well, hahaha. The first time we met we rode electric to a church and talked about random stuff, her interests, get to know each stuff. We rode scooters, which was her first time, I spiked her emotions, I rode through cracks, etc, a bit dangerous but fun.

The communication is just rapport building and me using kinos slowly.

When my wings saw me pulling this beautiful thing back to our shared flat, they seethed a bit, hahaha jealous fuckers, they are my long-time wings, at least they are honest with their emotion nothing malicious.

Introducing her to my friends with girlfriend boom social proof with pre-selection and having friends from different cultures and ethnicity, ALL PUAs, ALL non-needy, ALL fucks multiple girls a year. NO CHODEs. if I had chode friends I would not have been able to get the social proof and lower my value to her, not being able to create the security net, my friend was smart and talking me up like a fucking mafia boss and telling her knowing exactly what I want as a man, REASONING for why I would like her, qualifying her based on her behavior, but having his girlfriend telling her she's beautiful, compliment from a girl is a way more powerful.

They are all smart have reputable jobs and wear relox watches. no idiots or average IQ, existing people have it.

I'm grateful for friends at the end of the day. I was a bit of an isolationist recently. but I think I need to invest a bit and get to a better circle and learn to alleviate higher.

2nd time I saw her I got a private apartment, we smashed within 5 minutes of the meeting, meet up with my cool friend and went to dinner, him talking me up, providing value, and eating good food, and went back smashed again, in the middle of the end I wake checked my flight, which was in the MORNING instead of afternoon, so I had to dip and let her check out of the apartment.

I cummed inside her 4x times before I left, marking my territory

***I was going to theorize "how to get 9s", some points that come to mind. These would be the ones I've listed above. From what I've seen you need to understand the aspect of social frame/ proof with them at a higher level. I'll try to write a post, with my understanding."

High-status social frame in the girl's mind, it looks like she isn't going to associate herself with just anyone Rando approaching and assuming you could get a hook from her. As men we have types and standards, girls we don't approach at all. for girls I'd assume is the same thing, just more picky with their selection. with this one, she said she's 23, not that experienced, kinda could tell based on her behavior and she doesn't shave, still pretty :p.

She says she's a low body count girl, or lying about her body count. She told me she lost her virginity during a drunken ONS, etc... I'm her 2nd guy ever.

But this couple of days, she's going to a Romantic city and going to a music festival. I wasn't happy about it in mind, I didn't want to show that side of me too fast in the relationship. But I told her to if she sees another guy we are done, she made me a pinky promise and I told her I'll fly her out to visit me in another city nearby. we'll see if that comes true.

(sidenote)
After the first time fucking this beautiful queen, I went out with my wings and I hooked this chubby 6 I couldn't get rid of used her for pre-selection for my wings and just said "You wanna fuck?!" I went back to my place, smashed, and had post-nut clarity, missing my 9 :p

My one first-night game lay so far this year, the 6, LOL

I've been having random HSV outbreaks, laziness, messing up with better-quality girls during the night, etc.

I've been approaching the game a bit differently and having wings around is always fine.

After fucking the 6, I had ANOTHER ONE HOOKED who was at the DOOR but wouldn't come in. I was trying to break the record for my amount of closes in one day. But she probably senses the player's vibe from me. This girl was from a HARD approach invitation, gesturing to me with a cigarette and I responded "Where's my kiss?!" (ignoring the cigarette asking). Then her older friend encouraged her "Live a little!!" (got the kiss) then I went back to the club, inside after 30min I see her she gestured to me and she came 30 minutes of chatting bullshit and my wing assisting me to pull. She wouldn't pull, maybe she sense I didn't DIG her and just wanted my pee pee wet. whatever.
 
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TomInHo

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Nice report but I’m curious about this part…

But I told her to if she sees another guy we are done, she made me a pinky promise and I told her I'll fly her out to visit me in another city nearby

Don’t you think it’s a little early to tell her about not seeing other dudes?

I think it’s best to let them do all the chasing and lock down behavior because they always gravitate to the strongest dude anyways
 

Swati

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Nice report but I’m curious about this part…



Don’t you think it’s a little early to tell her about not seeing other dudes?

I think it’s best to let them do all the chasing and lock down behavior because they always gravitate to the strongest dude anyways
that's true... But if the expectations are set with that in mind I give the space... in her mind, it will occupy her. In perfect game, it's always better for the girl to chase you... but I don't have that consistency of logistically seeing each other. SO my words are the programming until next time is it needy maybe a bit. I think it was the best opinion.

If she decides to do what she isn't supposed to, the guilt of promising will eventually leak out and that will be the end...
 

TomInHo

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I’m sorry G but that sounds needy AF. You say she only had one guy before you and now you’re scared that’s she’s gonna fuck someone else?

I mean why?

Does that sound like the actions of a guy thats confident that he is her best option to you?

You don’t even know her but yet you’re being hyper controlling

That actually sub-communicates scarcity to a girl because a dude that gets girls of her quality consistently would not be so ready to lock her down after sex just a few times

I get it because you said she was your first 9 ever so it can be hard to control your desire but you have to show some restraint

Give her the chance to win you over and slowly come to you or this will end in flames faster that you would like
 
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that's true... But if the expectations are set with that in mind I give the space... in her mind, it will occupy her. In perfect game, it's always better for the girl to chase you... but I don't have that consistency of logistically seeing each other. SO my words are the programming until next time is it needy maybe a bit. I think it was the best opinion.

If she decides to do what she isn't supposed to, the guilt of promising will eventually leak out and that will be the end...
Hmmm.

What if she runs into a guy who she enjoys being around, is chill, let’s her be her and on top of that doesn’t get possessive over her?

What if he happens to inspire sexy feelings in her.

Dyou think she’ll even remember your little guilt trip?

Dyou think you’ll even find out?

And if you do find out, how will you act in a way that doesn’t sabotage her attraction/respect for you?
 

Skills

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I’m sorry G but that sounds needy AF. You say she only had one guy before you and now you’re scared that’s she’s gonna fuck someone else?

I mean why?

Does that sound like the actions of a guy thats confident that he is her best option to you?

You don’t even know her but yet you’re being hyper controlling

That actually sub-communicates scarcity to a girl because a dude that gets girls of her quality consistently would not be so ready to lock her down after sex just a few times

I get it because you said she was your first 9 ever so it can be hard to control your desire but you have to show some restraint

Give her the chance to win you over and slowly come to you or this will end in flames faster that you would like
Yea he is taking the feminine role, it should be the other way around... and ultimatoms signs of helplessness...
 

TomInHo

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thank you for pointing these things out. I was needy, I will the pace the relationship allow her to chase, completely. will let her initiate the contact n etc

Yeah it’s wise to pace things slower but in the beginning you still need to arrange for y’all to meet.

Usually takes about 3-5 meets/lays on separate occasions before most girls get invested and start focusing heavily on you. So don’t be surprised if you have to initiate most of those

I’m just saying focus on having a good time with her, sexing her up good and not being too pushy with exclusivity and labels

Other than that you’re gucci G
 
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