What's new

Calls & Texts  "I would rather keep contact over SMS"

Skjöldr

Modern Human
Modern Human
Joined
Nov 18, 2019
Messages
959
Hey guys

So i went on a quick instant date and got her number. Daygame. So i message her my icebreaker and then a few hours later i say "Hey Name, when is a good time to call?" I started calling and using Voice messages more and since she lives in another city and i seeded that she should come see me i figured it would be better to call instead of text. She messages me back "Hey Peter, i would rather keep contact over SMS. Ok?" And idk how to respond. I feel like she declined my compliance request and that i'm taking a step back if i agrees to do SMS (taking a step back is seduction death, GC article).

How should i proceed?
 

Skills

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Nov 11, 2019
Messages
5,248
Hey guys

So i went on a quick instant date and got her number. Daygame. So i message her my icebreaker and then a few hours later i say "Hey Name, when is a good time to call?" I started calling and using Voice messages more and since she lives in another city and i seeded that she should come see me i figured it would be better to call instead of text. She messages me back "Hey Peter, i would rather keep contact over SMS. Ok?" And idk how to respond. I feel like she declined my compliance request and that i'm taking a step back if i agrees to do SMS (taking a step back is seduction death, GC article).

How should i proceed?

ok... and then contact over sms... Don't do the calls and voicemails that is only reserved when the girl needs the extra push for a meet, if anything...
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Skjöldr

Modern Human
Modern Human
Joined
Nov 18, 2019
Messages
959
For this one ya follow Skills' advice. And just contact her over SMS from now on.

However just wanted to point out that there is another alternative to calls and texting. That may even yield better results than the formers.
I needed that article hard. So fucking good. Thank you @Velasco i will experiment with that from now on

Do you use video messages?
 
Last edited:

Skills

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Nov 11, 2019
Messages
5,248
I needed that article hard. So fucking good. Thank you @Velasco i will experiment with that from now on

Do you use video messages?
I would not use video messaging cause is making the girls just jump through too many hoops, kills mystery and you have field tested for yourself how voicemail has backfired, stick to texting,in the author's case video messaging makes sense cause his strength is not texting
 
Last edited:

jackgignac

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
May 5, 2020
Messages
50
I would not use video messaging cause is making the girls just jump through too many hoops, kills mystery and you have field tested for yourself how voicemail has backfired, stick to texting,in the author's case video messaging makes sense cause his strength is not texting

this in a way though is still viewing the woman as a prize. high value game you're the screener so express yourself freely for high chemistry. just something I play with. rather then ratio hunting vs. high chemistry hunting. 'is she cool enough to see my brilliance.' is my current frame. of course advanced guy like u knows women have disqualifying frame but something to play with in advanced level that works for me lately. women are law a court though everything said will be used against u haha but if u stay evolving they can't really keep up
 

Skjöldr

Modern Human
Modern Human
Joined
Nov 18, 2019
Messages
959
I would not use video messaging cause is making the girls just jump through too many hoops, kills mystery and you have field tested for yourself how voicemail has backfired, stick to texting,in the author's case video messaging makes sense cause his strength is not texting
I'm gonna experiment with it and go back to texting if it yields worse results
 

jackgignac

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
May 5, 2020
Messages
50
I'm gonna experiment with it and go back to texting if it yields worse results
I would say it's a more advanced thing to place with in that you have abundance mentality but ya worth a shot maybe. also when field testing guys gotta keep in mind sample size is key. you can't try something only like twice and think you tried it haha
 
Last edited:

Fuck This

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Jul 24, 2015
Messages
2,091
I ran into this with a woman who didn't want her phone ringing while at work. Texts she could answer discretely. I called her at the wrong time, her boss noticed and that ended it before it started.

So it is part of being discrete. You could make it into a little game of intrigue with code words and stuff. Still keep it so she wants more and she may tell you when a good time to call is.
 
Top