If a girl brings up sexual topics to me and leans on me is she definitely horny?

[timtobbler]

I was talking to this girl I've been almost-friends with for a while, and today she starts talking about sex and open relationships and masturbating, and she's pretty prudish so I didn't expect her to bring up these topics. She didn't share personal stories so much as she spoke about the ideas in general from more of a personal beliefs/feminist standpoint, and as she was talking to me I positioned myself so we were kind of leaning against each other sitting and she leaned in closer a bit. Also she kept glancing down at my body, trying to be sly about it, and being prudish and inexperienced I don't think she noticed me catching her. It's hard to get reads on girls who are almost virgins (she's told me in vague detail what she has and hasn't done so it's not an assumption, and much of it was independently verified by mutual friends). Is this a sign she's horny, or is she just comfortable and feminist-like around me?

 

[Fuck This]

Re: If a girl brings up sexual topics to me and leans on me is she definitely ho

This is the precise moment you need to initiate kino. Little less talk and a lot more action man.

Her reaction will tell you all you need to know.

 

[Marcellus]

Re: If a girl brings up sexual topics to me and leans on me is she definitely ho

You never know until you make a move right?

 

[Grand Pooba]

Re: If a girl brings up sexual topics to me and leans on me is she definitely ho

I was talking to this girl I've been almost-friends with for a while, and today she starts talking about sex and open relationships and masturbating, and she's pretty prudish so I didn't expect her to bring up these topics. She didn't share personal stories so much as she spoke about the ideas in general from more of a personal beliefs/feminist standpoint, and as she was talking to me I positioned myself so we were kind of leaning against each other sitting and she leaned in closer a bit. Also she kept glancing down at my body, trying to be sly about it, and being prudish and inexperienced I don't think she noticed me catching her. It's hard to get reads on girls who are almost virgins (she's told me in vague detail what she has and hasn't done so it's not an assumption, and much of it was independently verified by mutual friends). Is this a sign she's horny, or is she just comfortable and feminist-like around me?

Sounds like she's horny.
Even "prudish" girls get super horny, and the prudish thing is sometimes an act to protect her reputation. Based on her behavior seems like she's into you and interested in you.

This is the precise moment you need to initiate kino. Little less talk and a lot more action man.

Her reaction will tell you all you need to know.

Agreed, though this is a fine line too. Sometimes it's not kino - at least in public - but leading her either somewhere else, or to a seduction location, and then going all out.

This is a gray area that requires calibration, which comes from experience.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: If a girl brings up sexual topics to me and leans on me is she definitely ho

That's about as strong of an IOI as you can get right there partner.

 

[timtobbler]

Re: If a girl brings up sexual topics to me and leans on me is she definitely ho

That's about as strong of an IOI as you can get right there partner.

This wasn't a "the other night I was..." story though. We were talking about social dynamics and ideals that matter to us, and she started talking about how she supports sex-positive feminism, and women should have the freedom to have open relationships and masturbate. She didn't mention a single personal experience though she really couldn't mention the topic without implying there was personal significance. It wasn't so much sexual as clinical and academic.

I tried to figure out what was going through her head with a touch test. She was sitting against a wall with her legs out, so I sat facing her with my legs out alongside hers, touching the whole way down. She didn't move away or show any signs of discomfort, and sort of leaned in and pushed in just a bit closer, but still, the convo was just clinical and academic. I've rarely ever heard sexual topics being discussed so drily, and she already trusts me enough to divulge some of her deepest secrets, so I have no idea whether she was horny/interested or just felt comfortable enough with me to share her taboo views.