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If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why would I approach mediocre girls?

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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In the article You Really Should be Having Sex By Chase Amante the author says that

"Men who are inexperienced with women also trend toward
lower self-esteem, and lower self-esteem in men actually leads
to higher standards for one-night stands and casual
relationships."

I think I count as a novice with overall 12 lays, but my logic for approaching only hot girls is this:
-I only do daygame
-I have limited emotional resouces, bc I am an introvert.
-So If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why the fuck would I approach mediocre ones? Even if they are looking at me.
 

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Re: If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why would I approach mediocre gi

nad-

You have an interesting perspective. You say you ONLY approach 20 girls per day. That seems way too more to me compared to how many girls an average guy who is into pickup approaches. Speaking of approaching girls you are truly interested in, not accounting for approaches to be just a social or nightclubs. You don't go to nightclubs.

Speaking for myself, maybe yesterday was the day I've approached the most girls in a day, day as in daygame: about 10 girls. Pairs of girls counting as 1. And it was exhausting and only in one of the interaction was there a spark from both parties. I do care about whether there is a spark from my part, I don't know if it's good or bad.

But speaking of your ONLY 20 approach a day, here's a radical idea to you: Approach less.

Is Your Game Sustainable?

Fuck Yes or No

I don't know if any of these two resources make sense to you. Both of them make sense to me. The intersection of the two says that One Good Approach a day should be quite good. One is infinitely better than zero, as most guys approach zero. Analyze that one good approach to death. Meanwhile as you freed up so much time from chasing girls, develop an awesome lifestyle on the side the Brent Smith way. This is how I see it.

How do you do kino during the day?
 

nad_bigger

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Re: If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why would I approach mediocre gi

shit, so much to read, thanks) 20 a day is an absolute overdrive, my max capacity, leading me to quickly burnout) fuck yes or no - I read it and I agree 101%.
problem is all those articles telling me to approach either hottest ones - that I do, or mediocre ones who give approach invitations - that I don't quite grasp yet
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Re: If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why would I approach mediocre gi

nad_bigger said:
shit, so much to read, thanks)
Just two more. :)

7 Things I Require In The Future Mother Of My Child

Roosh wrote this way before he became a born again Christian just days ago. I can relate to this in many ways. Even if I'm not looking for the future mother of my child right now. Even if a girl doesn't tick all the boxes, the more boxes she ticks a nicer your experience with her can be, even if you are looking just for fun. OK, maybe you can ignore the skin tone box for your purposes.

You shouldn't ever call girls hot. Chase wrote an article titled Why to Throw Out the 1-to-10 Scale for Rating Women. I agree. Still, most of the forum, including GC team is using the 10-scale for reasons unknown to me. So I just call girls I fancy nice or interesting. Sometimes slutty, too. Perhaps because I myself don't live up to the ideals laid out in the 7 Things I Require In The Future Mother Of My Child article.

I've noticed you also reference to various Hollywood actresses as as reference points of hotness. The thing about beauty is it's entirely subjective. I actually had to look up your actresses via image search. They still mean nothing to me. To each their own.
 

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Re: If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why would I approach mediocre gi

Yeah, I say "hot" for reference, to explain better. For me there are 3 levels of girls:
1 who gives a fuck
2 hmm, interesting...
3 fuuck she is hot!

and now i only approach 3rd. and I have enough of 3rds ss I don't have to resort to 2nds.

Skin tone: there is only one skin tone in russia - the best one. (for legal reasons thats a joke)
So now I am on 2 weeks vacation from approaching, bc I haven't had a rest period in over 3 month, after that I will grind again. and fuck me some good ones
 

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Re: If I have only 20 approaches per day in me, why would I approach mediocre gi

"I also would not recommend you lower your standards to any
girl you aren't attracted to at all. There's no need for that, and
it'll only leave a bad taste in your mouth."

fucking thank you!! This is what I meant when I said "why would I approach mediocre girls?"
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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