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If I subtley rejected a girl who wanted sex, would she lose interest?

beginner112

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Hey guys,

I just had a date today with a girl, it was the second date and afterwards suggested she come back for a drink. She is 3 years younger than me and I could tell she came off a bit inexperienced with men. Long story short, I ended up making out wth her on my bed and then fingering her multiple times -- however, she was subtley trying to pull my pants down and have me have sec with her but I sort of subtley moved her away or like started to finger her again each time that happened. The reason for this was that I really didn't have a condom on me (bad mistake). Then, I told her that my brother was actually coming to visit me (completely true) and that he gave me a last minute text. I then basically said she had to go and walked her out and to an uber, though I did this as nicely as I could.

I got paranoid and thought she might falsely accuse me of something so I quickly texted her back an hour after:

"Hey Jenny, had fun hanging and talking with you tonight, let's grab food again when ur free :)"

She then responded an hour later with only:

"Haaha yea"

At this point, I know I probably should have just had sex with her and the whole telling her to leave because my brother was in town and needed a place to stay might have made it seem like I didn't really value her. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had any idea what her text could mean and what I might text her later in the day to arrange another date. Thanks guys!
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Drck

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Text doesn't mean anything, what is important is how she feels about the experience. Simply see if she'll go for another date with you. If she does, well, good, keep moving forward, start where you finished last time...
 
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