IF she flakes on you the day before the actual date. ~ SOme data

[trashKENNUT]

Hello,

I noted this. When i text a girl the day before the actual date and she flakes on me by saying she has something else to do and doesn't reschedule, She doesn't see me sexy enough to see me, at least 99% of the time. That number is terrible, but it's true.

So my advice if she do this two things,

1) She tells you she is going to flake when you text her
2) She says she got to go do something and it's not work or family emergency.

Practically text her the next day, and run a direct opener via text or give her a call. This is like a "fix", while you work on your fundamentals. What's your thoughts on this? I know Chase had an article similar to this, where he gives her a call and bring the emotion back But this only works occasionally.

and yes, i believe you can use this with girls whom you are in a social circle but you do not have close relationships with them.

Zac

 

[Estate]

Hey Zack,

Someone gave me this advice earlier in the year and I sort of felt it was spot on....
Basically... if she flakes and suggests another time, then its most likely genuine so you can follow up.

If you flakes and doesn't offer another time then she's most likely lost interest, leave it go. I've found this mostly true.

In terms of chasing it after she flakes, it's catch 22. With tight game, perhaps you can bring her around again. But if you have tight game, would she have flaked in the first place?

These days my time is precious. If I set aside time for someone and they flake, they lost their chance. I don't want to pursue them anyway.

 

[Ryan]

Agree with Estate here.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Estate,

In terms of chasing it after she flakes, it's catch 22. With tight game, perhaps you can bring her around again. But if you have tight game, would she have flaked in the first place?

I had girls flake because i went overhill with text when they were keen to meet me. and women do get nervous. I try make time for second text.

Zac