If she wants kids but man doesn't, best move to break off all interaction immediately?

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Bad idea to try to be with her in some kind of capacity?

What bad things would likely happen if you attempted to still be with her but not give her kids?

The thought entering my mind is "well but do I really have any better option than her? I need to progress in my school/career to have a realistic shot at getting someone better. And maybe that won't come to fruition. Is there no way to convince her not to have kids someday? Probably not, she talked about freezing her eggs so she seems hellbent on it. And I'd have to be able to make an enormous amount of money (not likely) to be willing to have kids. "

My instinct is to break off all interaction. Do you agree with my instinct? Or have kids with her someday is the second best option I think. Those are the only two good options right? Is there anything else I should be considering?

 

[Fuck This]

SO when I became single again, I dismissed all non parent women as LTR's because I did not want to have any more children, and I knew I'd be fighting the biological prerogative of 30 year old women who wanted to have children before it was too late.

In your situation where she is as attracted to you as you are to her, you need to lay it on the line and say " I'm not planning to have any/more children and you need to know that." It is then up to her to either stay in the relationship and put her desires aside, or end it when she feels she needs to find someone who WILL have children with her.

She may stay with you and try to change your mind. If you change your mind, that is OK. But if it becomes an issue then she needs to find someone else who can fill that role. This is the way for all your personal and professional goals. Identify those that are MOST important, and stick to them. Women and relationships must come secondary to your passions. The Right Woman will help you achieve them. The wrong woman will distract you from achieving them.

 

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100% on what FT just said.

She gets to be a grown ass adult and make decisions for herself... some women WILL try to change your mind and pretend like they don't want kids because they want YOU AND the kids... you've been warned about this.

The biggest risk you have here is that she might purposely get herself pregnant by you OR SOMEONE ELSE and then put you in a situation where you have no choice but to have the kid with her (this exact situation happened to my brother and the pregnant by someone else scenario happened to me). If this happens, make sure to get a blood test as early as possible and accept that this is a thing women do often enough to be a legitimate concern.

Not saying it will happen but it's a fucking nightmare scenario.

What YOU should do is stop selling yourself so short and, instead, believe that you can get more, actively work on getting more, and put yourself into abundance, if you can.

If she's your only option, it's harder to think clearly.

 

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Bad idea to try to be with her in some kind of capacity?

What bad things would likely happen if you attempted to still be with her but not give her kids?

The thought entering my mind is "well but do I really have any better option than her? I need to progress in my school/career to have a realistic shot at getting someone better. And maybe that won't come to fruition. Is there no way to convince her not to have kids someday? Probably not, she talked about freezing her eggs so she seems hellbent on it. And I'd have to be able to make an enormous amount of money (not likely) to be willing to have kids. "

My instinct is to break off all interaction. Do you agree with my instinct? Or have kids with her someday is the second best option I think. Those are the only two good options right? Is there anything else I should be considering?

Well you can stall, also a lot of women don't really know what they want is societal programming.... so you stall by saying I am may be open to the idea in the future, when she starts about 2 years in to ask you, you buy her a dog, that will delay 3 years, then some other animal will stall a year, by the time you ran out of animals is over anyways....

P.s. this is a bit of dark seduction, for some, but I have done this.... dog is good cause it stall a bit maternal instinct and is a lot of work make sure not to adopt cause the animal big already, make sure is a baby animal, preferably dog cause is more work than a cat.. if she is in 28-35 range you are fucked it may not work