If you Do Want Club Girls...a Simple Guide

[metomeya]

Hey guys,

I don't go after club girls and strippers like I did in the past. When you start getting experience with girls your standards change.

However, I will say in my late teens and early 20s I wish i had come across this guide (instead of the TONs of PUA stuff I read that caused me to over think things).

Enjoy!

http://www.boytoystory.com/club-creeping-how-to-get-girls-in-the-nightlife/

 

[metomeya]

I wanted to comment on this post cause I realized I couldn't do this when I was young (18-22). Why?

Cause I was just too introverted! For those that are in the same boat, I wanted to offer a different solution.

The main theme in the link above is don't focus on getting laid, just focus on having fun, and getting laid will just happen.

This can be hard for an introvert. Instead, I offer, don't focus on getting laid, but talking to everyone in the bar/club. Just ask them "Whats up?" Focus on being social. Might sound hard for an introvert, but it is not. What is hard for the introvert is opening up and start having spontaneous fun. But the introvert can still go around talking to everyone.

I would suggest showing up early (between 9:30 - 10:30) when there is barely anyone there and talk to everyone there (and start right away or else you'll enter hermit mode). And talk to everyone who walks in. Remember, just a simple "How is it going?" is all you need to ask!

A lot of this philosophy comes from this guy: http://www.youtube.com/user/askbrentsmith
He also has a book worth checking out!

 

[Estate]

Hey man,
I read this blog and a few of his older posts and I like the guy. His style is good for a younger European kid.
The college scene back home is a little different to here. To be honest, trying to be ultra smooth and deep dive an Irish college girl after her 4th shot of vodka is not going to go anywhere. You just need to be social and be the cool guy. I realize that now too... I was a quiet kid but back then, these were the guys getting laid more.

But you're totally right. I mentioned it on another thread about AA this week. There's no need to overthink it.
If I'm in a bar or club now, I usually just start with a "Hey, how's your night going?" with a cheeky smile and it's gold. Chase's articles on pre-opening helps with the same.
It's just about being cool and social, not having a great opening line. Infact, the weirder the opener... the more off-key it feels... like Why is this guys saying this?

He has some good points on other posts too... just get your stuff together. Be cool, get fit, work out, get your style in order and just go have fun with everyone.
He has another point on alcohol. There's always a debate on that. Drinking vs. Non-Drinking.
I like to drink when I'm out but I kinda realized that a couple of beers are fun and get me more in the mood but any more than that, I am throwing money away and my game is nowhere near as good as I probably think it is at the time. My golden rule now is... have a few beers if you want them but if you're not going to do your usual routine of going running the next morning, you over did it, even if it's not a full blown hangover. Find the happy medium that works for you.

Cool kid, looks like he figured a lot out for himself.

 

[metomeya]

Cool kid, looks like he figured a lot out for himself.

I know and at such a young age too. I'm jealous!

I really like his information on money, so simple but more people need to do it!

http://www.boytoystory.com/save-money-buy-freedom/
http://www.boytoystory.com/get-a-life/

For drinking my rule is one and only one drink a night.

I'll go back to the same bartender and ask for water (as long as it isn't too busy). They are pretty cool about it especially if I left a big tip before. I know myself, if I go to 2 drinks, when I'm like why not three? Then why not one more? Then I'm already shit face another drink won't make a difference! When just one more and I'm done. But then I don't remember the rest of the night!