If you generally dislike social activities, what are some less draining ones to still do that will help your dating

[sinksink]

Before covid, I would go to dance classes and yoga classes and some social activities at a local college. It was draining. After months, It did lead to sleeping w/ a girl from a dance class but for most part, I thought it was shit ( for me) compared to online dating. Dance classes -> meet hotter girls but realistically, I am not yet good enough to be w/ most and it was mostly a waste and tiring for me personally. But my actual favorite hobby of jerking off and browsing the internet alone is just not an acceptable thing to talk about on a date

The only thing social activities in groups did was 1) help me get pics for dating apps 2) have friends and hobbies to mention

I am thinking to myself alright once covid ends, I don't think I'm going to go to group social activities much anymore. But I still want to get better social pics for dating app (me w/ friends)+ be able to say I have friends and hobbies that are acceptable to girls. Porn / youtube/ internet is not an acceptable hobby to talk about w/ alot of girls but is the truth

What might be some less draining/time consuming ways to do this?

 

[ElderPrice]

The way to make it less draining is to have more respect and higher standards for yourself.

 

[ulrich]

What do you like to do?
I find hard to believe that biggest your hobbies are jacking off and browsing the internet. Be honest.

And if they are... there are more important questions you should be asking first...

 

[Beck Bass]

I'm also a lot on the internet and wank a lot lol, but this doesn't mean that's all I do.
I play bass since I was 15, I also try to make video games since I was like 12, I think (I mostly rather that the "artist" route with girls, though, since the guys they wanna bang the most are artists, not nerds lmao, but some girls react with lots of interest even to my "game dev" persona).
Physical activities are obviously great, since most hot girls like hitting the gym, and likely are currently (or at least did in the past). Also if you really dedicate yourself to it, you get a nice body, so it's double the value, for seduction.
You can also learn how to cook or do some craft you enjoy, those can also help you with girls, though how much depends a lot on the girl and on niche situations.
Also just reading and being a "man of culture" makes you stand out a lot to more cultured women, but this depends a lot on the type of women you are into and your interests, as well.
Social activities are nice, but I myself don't find all that much value in them. A lot of people wanna see those group lessons as "social" but most of the time, you, as the student, is silent for most of it and don't interact all that much with other people. I think just spending time talking and interacting to groups in like clubs, parties or anywhere, really, where just hanging out and socializing is the main thing, has much more value for seduction, in my opinion, so if you doing group activities just hoping for more pun pun, I would drop it, and do something I actually like, and go out more, instead.

The pictures you can just get elsewhere lmao, but if you're going out a lot and meeting more people, you might find yourself less and less invested into online dating, as you might be able get much better girls in person. Hope this helps

 

[Glow]

just hook up with some of the girl sets when youre out doing your thing. Makes it part of what youre already doing.

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Gives you better social activities, girls for priv parties etc too. Especially if you find a cool social connector type who has the finger on the pulse.

And you can keep it as minimal as you like.

 

[Zoro]

Jerking off and browsing the internet will fuck up your dopamine system, which is actually a motivating chemical not a pleasure one.

I would bet if you cut out porn and excessive internet usage for a few months, your motivation to do other shit will sky rocket.

Also doing shit JUST for the sake of doing something is indeed draining. When you engage in something you are passionate about, it is energizing.

I agree with some of the sentiments above, you should demand more from yourself and take a step back from things to reflect on life.