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Space Monkey
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Sunday 5th September

Summary
Weekend DG. Sunny Sunday afternoon
Went round the usual haunts
4 girls - Super hot mid 30's redhead near my flat, bailed on an LFB, cute young girl got up and walked away, and did first 2 girl approach, and was completely mesmerized by stunning beautiful South African redhead


Soundtrack

90's Rave Classics Spotify playlist
Highlights: N-Trance: Set You Free, U.S.U.R.A: Open Your Mind, Orbital: Chime, Opus III: It's a Fine Day
The Prodigy: Music for a Jilted Generation
Highlights: No Good (Start the Dance), Voodoo People, Claustrophobic Sting


How much of a pussy is Andrew?

Andrew is a pussy score: 0%
Number of hot girls you could have approached: 4
No. of hot girls approached: 4
Reason for not approaching: N/A - Andrew even did a 2 girl approach today because the girl he wanted to fuck was so fucking hot


What happened?

Did anything interesting happen?
Approach 2 girls, started by talking to the friend about how stunning the redhead was, was so mesmerized by her wide eyes and beauty I was stopped in my tracks. Was shooed away by the friend when she sensed weakness, but undeterred, I returned to ask out super hot redhead


Good/Bad

Good - Direct approaches, 2 girl approach, returned to ask out girl I wanted to fuck, despite friend telling me to vamos!
Bad - Was stopped in tracks by beauty, so couldn't speak, completely mesmerized


Month so far
Andrew is a pussy score: 50%
Number of hot girls you could have approached: 14
No. of hot girls approached: 7

Thoughts
Need to look cooler, learn about style (clothes, not Neil Strauss)
Need to look better - lose the belly flab, do weights, get fit
Need to learn 2 girl approaches
Need to work on standard approach and have go-to questions for likely scenarios (eg. lunchtime weekday, weekends etc)
Think that suggesting what girl is doing is a good way to open conversation. eg. are you just on your lunch from work?
I like the "I hope you don't mind me saying this" - feel it builds tension
 

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Tuesday 7th September

Just had some realizations.

It's 3:10am. I've been quite frustrated this evening. I feel that I should've been doing a lot better at all this stuff than I have been, and I've been trying to work out what the problem is.

But I just don't understand what I've been doing wrong.

I haven't worked any of that stuff out, but I did realize a few things.

First. Diana isn't going to contact me. If she was interested, she'd have made time for me. She says she'd be in contact, she doesn't respond to texts. She's not coming.

Second. As beautiful as Gerda was, and she was easily the most beautiful women I've ever spent time with, I didn't really like her as a person.

Sure I'd fuck her and I'm sure it would be great, but I didn't really like her. She was just a nice trinket to me.

I think that's really funny.

Super hot, but I don't really like her.

Fucking crazy, eh?

Still no idea what I've been doing wrong though.

Oh well, fuck it. Lol
 
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The Sexy Mysterious Funda-Mental 666 Plan​

A new attitude needs a new plan. I’ve been letting myself get a bit down about things lately but I’ve had some great advice from the forum boys and I feel much better about things as a result.

So, here’s the new plan
  • Review fundamentals and do a SWOT analysis to find weak spots to improve
  • Review approach style and come up with a standard method to use as a base that I can riff on depending on circumstances. Consider direct and indirect openers, and how you would progress the interaction towards the desired outcome
  • Read 6 articles on
    • Frame
    • Compliance
    • Escalation and sexualising interactions
    • Being dominant
    • Texting
    • Approach and interaction theory
  • Read Mystery Method
Main Goal for next 6 weeks
  • Get 6 dates with 6 sexy ladies
Timeline for the next 6 weeks is Monday 13th September to Sunday 24th October

And remember Gene Simmon’s advice to the other members of KISS - Keep It Simple Stupid.

I Was Made For Lovin’ You baby so we’re gonna Rock and Roll All Nite!
 

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Sunday 12th September

I had a bit of a scary incident over the weekend. I was away with family and had an accident whilst quad biking. I fell off the quad bike, down a small hill, and it landed on top of me. Apparently, they weigh a quarter of a ton! I could see it was going to land on me and thought "oh dear, this isn't going to be good." Fortunately, it was the tyre that landed on me and bounced off my chest. I had some pain in my chest and developed a lot of ankle pain later in the day. So, I went to the hospital the next day, and was fortunate enough to get the all-clear from the doctor after an examination and x-rays. Nothing broken, just some bruises and a swollen ankle. I was very lucky. The doctor said I must have twisted my ankle when I landed. When I went to the hospital I was terrified that my ankle would be broken and I'd be out of action for 6 weeks, or worse. I was very worried that after all the work I'd done and the momentum I had gained, it would all be lost and I'd be back to square one. I felt that I was just starting to turn the corner and get my life on track after spending a year sorting my head out, working on myself, and starting a new life for myself after getting out of my terrible relationship. So I'm very grateful that things turned out alright. I had a bit of an emotional time in the hospital when I was waiting to see the doctor and then again when I got home and was on my own once I had a chance for everything to sink in.

It really puts things in perspective. You don't have much time on this planet to do the things you want to do, and your health is of the utmost importance. I don't want to go back to hospital and feel like that ever again, so I really need to take things seriously and start looking after myself properly, otherwise what's the point? I've wasted too many opportunities in my life and I don't want to be on my deathbed with a bunch of regrets wishing I'd done more with my life.

But anyway, onwards and upwards. I've got a plan for the week and I'm all in on building the life that I want for myself.
 

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Week 1 - Goals and Daily Plan

I'm out for action for daygame for the next 7 to 10 days, so this week is all about assessing where I am at, figuring out what I need to work on, and developing my knowledge and understanding of fundamental concepts.

Goals
  • Decide what I want to achieve in the long term and in the immediate 6 weeks
  • Figure out who I am and what my strengths and weakness are
  • Get a solid understanding the key concepts that I need to know
  • Stick to a daily schedule and be strict about getting up early and going to bed at the same time
  • Eat healthily and start the process of quitting smoking

Daily Plan

Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday

Sunday Evening review of week and plan for next week
 
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Long and short term goals

Long term
  • I want to feel like I am in charge of my life, I decide what I want and I make it happen
  • As far as chicks go, I want to be able to seduce beautiful women, and spend time with fun and intelligent girls who are interesting and easy to get on well with
  • I’m not interested in monogamous LTRs, but at the same time, I don’t just want a string of ONS
    • I think a happy medium is some ONS, some occasional fuck buddies, and some more frequent FWBs
    • I do want some cool girls to hang out with, and I want the friends aspect as well as the benefits, but I don’t want to be tied to just one person. Equally, I don’t expect any of the girls to avoid having sex with other people, I'm cool with it

Short term (up to 24th October)
  • I want to work on my DG approaches and establish a few things for myself
    • A standard approach that I am happy with and can adapt to the circumstances or environment
    • Decide what outcome I am working towards and how to structure the approach to achieve this
      • Get a date later on
      • Go on an insta-date there and then
      • Go for the pull
    • Some go-to openers
    • Some go-to topics of conversation
    • How to sexilise the interaction
    • How to escalate
    • When and how to pull the trigger and ask for date or more
    • What to do afterward to ensure the date happens
    • A structure for the interaction
    • How to read her reactions
    • How concepts such as frame, attainability, and compliance fit in
    • Learn how to recognise IOIs
  • Learn how to text a girl properly
  • Once I’ve gone on 6 dates, I’ll start to start to worry about how to improve those, I’ve gone on 1 so far, so 5 to go. But at the moment, I don’t have much data to work with so I need more information, and I also need to focus on how to get date sin the first place so I can get more experience to learn from
  • Work on getting my fundamentals as good as possible
  • Read the important concepts and books to develop my knowledge and understanding
  • Improve quickly by doing the following
    • Take lots of action - i.e do lots of approaches
    • Lower your standards to get more practice - 7+ is go
    • Deliberate practice
    • Reflection and analysis
    • Post DG and date reviews on forum to get feedback
 
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Who am I?

I’m a romantic with hedonistic tendencies

My interaction style will naturally revolve around the following
  • Charm
  • Humour
  • Playfulness
  • Being inspiring
  • Developing an emotional connection
  • Using emotional contagion

Benefits
  • You are likable and fun to be around
  • Regarded as intelligent and knowledgeable
    • Beneficial as you are an older dude
  • Good social skills - easily get on well with other people
  • Empathy and emotional intelligence

Risks to avoid
  • Offering unearned compliments
  • Being too high value and unattainable - be conscious of how you are coming across to her
  • Being too nice and predictable - you need to be edgy and take risks
  • Just being a fun guy - you need to be sexual and lead things towards bang time!
  • Putting her on a pedestal and falling for the girl - big risk for you!!!
 
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What is my identity?

I'm a bohemian intellectual.
A smart dude with rebellious and artistic tendencies, who enjoys being thought of as a bit different.

My main strengths here are
  • Being seen as intelligent and knowledgeable
  • Life is stable and going places
  • I'm not concerned with social norms and on;t care what other people think of me
  • I'm a bit different
  • Independent
  • Cool guy
  • Creative

Main risk factors are
  • Could be perceived as regular guy initially - need to improve fashion to avoid this and convey the image you want
  • Coming across as too nice and too friendly, not sexual enough
  • Coming across as too smart or arrogant- unrelatable and unattainable

The Rebel?

I definitely have rebellious aspects of my character, but I know how to play the system. So I am different, but not an outsider. I join in, but on my own terms. So, I don't feel that I suffer from many of the negative aspects of being a rebel, but at the same time, I don't know that I would be perceived as a full-on rebel.
  • Cool
  • Independent
  • Interesting, intriguing, and different
  • Not swayed by social pressure

The Regular Guy?

I think I am at risk of being immediately perceived as a regular guy as I am amiable and friendly, and visually, I look like a normal, but well put together, dude.

So, I need to take steps to mitigate this. Don't be too nice, and look edgier.

The Intellectual?

I am probably mostly here.

Benefits
  • Authoritative and intelligent, highly competent
  • Stable life - good job, will progress in career
  • Free from social pressure
  • Has the wisdom factor to play with which fits in with being a bit older

Risk factors
  • Unrelatable to less educated women - need to adapt how you come across to her level
  • Showing off by being too much of a smartass
  • May come across as arrogant

The Artist?

I have some of this. Work in a sort of creative industry, my interests revolve around music and the arts, I'm starting to write, so that may become a larger part of my identity in the near future. However, I'm not so much of an artist that I can claim it as a full identity, but I also don't suffer from the negatives

Benefits
  • Creative
  • Not concerned with social norms
  • Uncommon and unusual
  • Intriguing
  • A bit different from other guys

Risk factors
  • Being a bit weird may put some chicks off
 

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Fundamentals and Game - An honest review

Fundamentals

  • Hairstyle, face, and facial hair
    • 9 out of 10
    • Pretty good
    • I go to a good hair salon with the same senior stylist
    • Neatly trimmed beard
    • Skincare routine
    • Teeth whitening, need to continue with this but not overdo it
    • Got contacts to try, have nice glasses, will get more
    • Feel that I am on top of this, don’t feel there is much I can improve
  • Fashion
    • 6 out of 10
    • Feel that I am above average by getting the basics right
    • Clothes that fit properly, basic knowledge of colour, texture, style
    • Look pretty good, but not amazing
    • Look put together, but not really cool
    • Need to learn how to dress sexy and find a style that works for you
  • Muscle and physique
    • 5 out of 10
    • Area with biggest potential gains to be made
    • Need to lose belly fat
    • Get to 15% body fat
    • Need to develop shoulder muscles more
    • Need to get back to doing regular exercise first thing in the morning
    • Need to get back to healthy nutritious diet
    • Get proper sleep - make this a priority!
    • Stop smoking - it doesn’t help any of this and will only make things worse
  • Eye contact
    • 7 out of 10
    • Remember to do it
    • Think about fucking her when you look into her eyes
    • Also, try to work out what colour her eyes are
  • Voice
    • 6 out of 10
    • I have a deep voice already
    • Need to use downward inflection at end of sentence more
    • Need to eliminate filler words so you sound more confident
    • Need to speak louder and more authoritatively
    • I need to infuse more enthusiasm into my voice
  • Body language
    • Posture
      • 8 out of 10
      • Keep working at it and doing exercises
    • Walk
      • 8 out of 10
      • More confidence and it will improve
    • Gestures
      • 6 out of 10
      • Don’t use these enough
    • Facial expressions
      • 5 out of 10
      • Not sure how I’m doing so assuming average and needs work


Game

  • Your frame control
    • 0 out of 10
    • Don’t know what this is yet
  • Your skill as a conversationalist
    • 8 out of 10
    • This is one of my main strengths
  • Your ability to use humour effectively
    • 8 out of 10
    • My other main strength atm
  • Your ability to introduce a sexual frame
    • 0 out of 10
    • No idea how to do this
  • Your ability to lead the interaction forward
    • 0 out of 10
    • No idea how to do this
  • Your ability to handle obstacles and objections
    • 6 out of 10
    • Limited opportunity for testing but did well on recent date I think
    • Needs more research though
  • Your ability to keep the mood going the right way
    • 6 out of 10
    • More knowledge required
  • Your ability to make her feel the way you want her to
    • 3 out of 10
    • Need to learn how to do this properly
 

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Wednesday 15th September

Did an impromptu approach in Inverleith Park.

Jennifer, very cute and bubbly blonde, completely lovely. Made her laugh a lot

Thought I got some pretty obvious IOIs but she mentioned her 'partner' in passing during our chat.

How much of a pussy is Andrew?

Andrew is a pussy score: 0%
Number of hot girls you could have approached: 1
No. of hot girls approached: 1
Reason for not approaching: N/A - Andrew is cool with talking to girls! But he still doesn't get anywhere, so what's the difference.

That's the spirit! - Good PMA, lol.


What happened?

Did anything interesting happen?
2 gay guys kept looking over and 1 seemed pretty impressed that I had just cold approached, chatted up and was making this girl laugh a lot, so that was good.
She said Hectors was a good bar to go to, so I'll check it out.


Good/Bad

Good - Indirect approach, had her laughing a lot, fun to chat to
Bad - Totally misinterpreted the IOI? Maybe. I have no clue now. I say making her laugh is a good thing, seems to be all I've got. It's not working though is it? I can hold a conversation with someone and we talk about lots of stuff, that doesn't seem to count for much either. I just get more confused with this stuff.

I don't seem to be getting anywhere with this, it's all very confusing and frustrating.
Genuinely don't understand how the human race has managed to perpetuate itself for all these years.
How does anyone ever manage to get laid?
How did I ever manage it in the past?
I actively trying now!
Spoken to more chicks than I ever have in my whole life put together, but it doesn't look like it's going to happen does it? Oh dear.
Guess I'll just keep plugging away. Gotta get lucky sometime!

Month so far
Andrew is a pussy score: 47%
Number of hot girls you could have approached: 15
No. of hot girls approached: 8

Apparent boyfriend rejection count
BF could have been mentioned: 5
BF was mentioned: 4
 
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Episode IV: A New Hope

So, I've been advised to forget about theory for the time being, so I need a new plan. And trying to read far too many articles in an evening isn't going to work. You don't hit your reading target and it's just another fucking thing to be frustrated about. Let see if this works!

https://www.girlschase.com/content/beginners-quick-start-guide-picking-girls-and-dating
https://www.girlschase.com/content/she-interested-8-signs-she-definitely
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-girls-show-interest
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-101-basics-and-fundamentals
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-101-new-way-open
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-101-what-comes-after-approach
https://www.girlschase.com/content/get-more-lays-out-day-game-these-8-tips
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt1-your-mindset
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt2-openers-and-body-language
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt3-i-don-t-know-what-say-girls
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt4-three-rules
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt5-advanced-approach-techniques
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt6-high-five-game
https://www.girlschase.com/content/day-game-tour-tony-depp-pt7-instant-dates
https://www.girlschase.com/content/book-excerpts-being-attainable-women
https://www.girlschase.com/content/being-challenge-women-really-turning-them
https://www.girlschase.com/content/attainability-woes-or-why-girls-who-you-reject-you
https://www.girlschase.com/content/3-types-attainability-problems-lose-you-girls-video
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-command-women-and-have-them-listen
https://www.girlschase.com/content/its-not-your-investment-her-its-hers-you
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-her-say-yes
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-do-you-command-suggest-or-request-her-compliance
https://www.girlschase.com/content/compliance-stacking
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-use-compliance-tests-move-fast-girls
https://www.girlschase.com/how-to-text-a-girl

Optimistically added in the text one at the end. Good luck me, you'll need it

Also, keep track of the number of rejections that involve a boyfriend - does it stack up vs what's the average for real life or am I just a dick?
 
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Thursday 16th September

Summary
EveningDG after work, walk to Princes Street Gardens Scott Monument - Seems to be the best place to meet girls so far


Soundtrack

Evil Invaders: Surge of Insanity: Live in Antwerp 2018
Highlights: As Life Slowly Fades, Broken Dreams in Isolation, Victim of Sacrifice


How much of a pussy is Andrew?

Andrew is a pussy score: 0%
Number of hot girls you could have approached:1
No. of hot girls approached: 1
Reason for not approaching: N/A - Andrew now has the urge to go talk to cute girl, despite and AA he might feel. It would be very annoying to not approach and I feel I can;t not approach now, so that's pretty cool not


What happened?

Did anything interesting happen?
Walked past young looking brunette, I checked her out and she nervously smiled at me as I walked past. I hung around nearby behind where she was sitting and she looked around, so I figured there were some IOIs, so I felt compelled to approach. I think during the convo she tried to prove she was cool, and also suggested that I take her to some bars. She was new in town. Asked her if she wanted to go for a drink sometime, she asked what I meant, so I said "on a date" and she offered to give me her number


Good/Bad

Good - I was relaxed and cool, was able to lead the convo when there were lulls, I think she was quite quiet and introverted - art student, 19
Bad - Didn't show intent, need to give more eye contact


Month so far
Andrew is a pussy score: 56%
Number of hot girls you could have approached: 16
No. of hot girls approached: 9

Apparent boyfriend rejection count
BF could have been mentioned: 5
BF was mentioned: 4

Thoughts
Need to show intent and lead, need to sexualise the convo some way - don't know how to do these things, need to learn. Need to give more eye contact when sitting side by side
 
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