I'm Comfortable Being Aggressive With Women I Know, But Inconsistent Otherwise

[Big Daddy]

With female friends I know, I'm probably more comfortable than I should be touching them all over the place and sexual framing everything they say, and the result is positive.

The problem, however, is inconsistency with girls I go on a date with that I still didn't shag.

Sometimes I can hit a super powerful state where I have a full boner the entire time and pretty much know she feels the same, but most of the time I can't replicate it, even if I go out with a plan of actions "OK, I'll grab her like this when we meet."

What helped your consistency with sexualizing convos/touches?

 

[PrettyDecent]

Re: I'm Comfortable Being Aggressive With Women I Know, But Inconsistent Otherwi

Big Daddy,

The best cure is if you've slept with a girl recently. And even better if you've slept with many new girls recently. That way you feel comfortable sexually escalating with girls you haven't known for long, because you're confident girls love it and they'll accept it.

That's the most powerful method. The second is practicing polarising. Meet a shitload of new girls at the club or a (really) busy shopping district and just practice touching them or going on instant dates and practice touching them.

Nick

 

[Big Daddy]

Re: I'm Comfortable Being Aggressive With Women I Know, But Inconsistent Otherwi

Hey Nick,

Thanks for your answer. Another thing your answer made me think is if I have a queue of girls, I'm less likely to particularly care about this girl in particular if I seem like a sex-weirdo.

I'll try to get more exposure with girls never-the-less.

 

[mindful]

Re: I'm Comfortable Being Aggressive With Women I Know, But Inconsistent Otherwi

I get like this as well.