Transgender Women
I installed an app called " Chatous " yesterday. The app presents you as ananonymous and you can end conversations whenever you want permanently without any consequences. The only good impression you have to make is having a great bio up and interests. I did that and got a few messages. Some petered out: I ended some and girls ended some with me.
ON Chatous you can change the settings to look for girls only. I did that and came up on a girl ( and for her privacy I'll change the name ). Her name is Hola. Hola and I messaged until I told her where I was from and she was impressed. We traded pictures and she liked my pictures but I didn't like her's.
Here's the photo:
She is from Thailand ,Asia. I don't like the photo because she creeps me out. And here's another creepy one.
Edit: I've decided not to upload this one I got from her profile. My gut tells it would be wrong. The pic had her in a bikini but looking more like a man in a wig with muscles. I should say that I wish to not paint her in a bad light. She has been really nice to me.
That's from her Facebook page. I have never met a transgender before but this woman looks like one. I feel bad for even posting this here. I wouldn't want anyone to mix me up for a woman. But since we are talking, and just friends , and she lives on the opposite side of the world I want to know what's up. Over the past few years Asia has a reputation for transgender to be seen as a third gender and men fly from all over the world to get laid there.
Even if a person claims to be transgender I still consider them to be the person they were born as. If they were born a man and transformed into a woman I still consider them a man and vice versa
Hola asked me for my number and I gave her and she whatsapped me. I asked her to send another photo since on Chatous the photo expires after 3 to 10 seconds. Of course she sent it and it looked more feminine and human. I asked a male friend his opinion on it and he told me something look funny about it because a she alone in the photos. The other photo she had a dog with her. And she is a animal fan I suppose.
Earlier today she asked if we could be Facebook friends. Now I like when girls chase me but if she comes on too strong I get defensive. I already gave her my number after trading 20 texts with her plus her photo creeped me out.And now she wants to add me on Facebook and become a permanent fixture in my online life. Really? So I asked her to send me her Facebook name and I would add her. That's just an excuse for me to check out her profile. On the entire profile there is two only picture's of her with a man and in this photo she looks more feminine. Attractive enough that I would consider dating her. But because of her photo inconsistencies I don't know if she is male or female. Here is the photo where she looks feminine.
Looks okay right? More feminine? I'm still confuised. I don't want to be chatting up a man in disguise. My friend said if I already don't trust her I should cut contact. That's hard for me because she already has my number and I don't want to be rude. I' ll just hurt her feelings. What if she really is female but more on the rough side? That would piss her off and my aim is to make friends, not enemies right around the world. I could block her on whatsapp but I'd feel guilty. The only family or friends she has is a dog, a lot of animal paintaings she did ( which are lovely art by the way ), and a man posing with her, probably her boyfriend. It looks creepy. If she didn't send me the first picture I'd probably be okay.
I have high empathy for people and want to see the best in them. I don't trust this chick and my friend says she looks funny too. What should I do? Cut her off and how should I do it to spare her ego?
Thanks
Troy
I installed an app called " Chatous " yesterday. The app presents you as ananonymous and you can end conversations whenever you want permanently without any consequences. The only good impression you have to make is having a great bio up and interests. I did that and got a few messages. Some petered out: I ended some and girls ended some with me.
ON Chatous you can change the settings to look for girls only. I did that and came up on a girl ( and for her privacy I'll change the name ). Her name is Hola. Hola and I messaged until I told her where I was from and she was impressed. We traded pictures and she liked my pictures but I didn't like her's.
Here's the photo:
She is from Thailand ,Asia. I don't like the photo because she creeps me out. And here's another creepy one.
Edit: I've decided not to upload this one I got from her profile. My gut tells it would be wrong. The pic had her in a bikini but looking more like a man in a wig with muscles. I should say that I wish to not paint her in a bad light. She has been really nice to me.
That's from her Facebook page. I have never met a transgender before but this woman looks like one. I feel bad for even posting this here. I wouldn't want anyone to mix me up for a woman. But since we are talking, and just friends , and she lives on the opposite side of the world I want to know what's up. Over the past few years Asia has a reputation for transgender to be seen as a third gender and men fly from all over the world to get laid there.
Even if a person claims to be transgender I still consider them to be the person they were born as. If they were born a man and transformed into a woman I still consider them a man and vice versa
Hola asked me for my number and I gave her and she whatsapped me. I asked her to send another photo since on Chatous the photo expires after 3 to 10 seconds. Of course she sent it and it looked more feminine and human. I asked a male friend his opinion on it and he told me something look funny about it because a she alone in the photos. The other photo she had a dog with her. And she is a animal fan I suppose.
Earlier today she asked if we could be Facebook friends. Now I like when girls chase me but if she comes on too strong I get defensive. I already gave her my number after trading 20 texts with her plus her photo creeped me out.And now she wants to add me on Facebook and become a permanent fixture in my online life. Really? So I asked her to send me her Facebook name and I would add her. That's just an excuse for me to check out her profile. On the entire profile there is two only picture's of her with a man and in this photo she looks more feminine. Attractive enough that I would consider dating her. But because of her photo inconsistencies I don't know if she is male or female. Here is the photo where she looks feminine.
Looks okay right? More feminine? I'm still confuised. I don't want to be chatting up a man in disguise. My friend said if I already don't trust her I should cut contact. That's hard for me because she already has my number and I don't want to be rude. I' ll just hurt her feelings. What if she really is female but more on the rough side? That would piss her off and my aim is to make friends, not enemies right around the world. I could block her on whatsapp but I'd feel guilty. The only family or friends she has is a dog, a lot of animal paintaings she did ( which are lovely art by the way ), and a man posing with her, probably her boyfriend. It looks creepy. If she didn't send me the first picture I'd probably be okay.
I have high empathy for people and want to see the best in them. I don't trust this chick and my friend says she looks funny too. What should I do? Cut her off and how should I do it to spare her ego?
Thanks
Troy
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She lives on the opposite side of the world? What have you got to lose by asking if she is, actually, transgender?
One thing to keep in mind is that hookers/strippers extorting money from Western guys who fall in love with them is a cottage industry in Thailand. There are all kinds of subcontractors such as ppl who write letters in English to the dude on her behalf (about her mum who has cancer etc etc). Also a lot will go to the dude's home country, sometimes with their kids, and live with him for 6mths to a year while racking up the mink coats, sending a lot of money home, getting married etc (if he is super generous that is). So be on the lookout. There is a place in Thailand called "Swiss village" that was entirely built from the bankroll of one Swiss businessman.
Other than that, have some fun... why not get her on Skype and get a bit of Skype sex going, you'll soon find out if she's a dude
Lastly it is wrong to consider someone by their birth gender. IMO accept them for what they want to be. Some of the dudes here have posted FR++ and LR- with transgender and it's all a bit of fun IMO. I'm down.
cheers, Ray
One thing to keep in mind is that hookers/strippers extorting money from Western guys who fall in love with them is a cottage industry in Thailand. There are all kinds of subcontractors such as ppl who write letters in English to the dude on her behalf (about her mum who has cancer etc etc). Also a lot will go to the dude's home country, sometimes with their kids, and live with him for 6mths to a year while racking up the mink coats, sending a lot of money home, getting married etc (if he is super generous that is). So be on the lookout. There is a place in Thailand called "Swiss village" that was entirely built from the bankroll of one Swiss businessman.
Other than that, have some fun... why not get her on Skype and get a bit of Skype sex going, you'll soon find out if she's a dude
Lastly it is wrong to consider someone by their birth gender. IMO accept them for what they want to be. Some of the dudes here have posted FR++ and LR- with transgender and it's all a bit of fun IMO. I'm down.
cheers, Ray
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Ray_zorse,
Definitely! She told me she wanted to visit my country and meet me. I'm wary of doing that though and the warning signs you said are all true. I got a nude pic from her and I've confirmed that she is a woman.
#sigh of relief
One thing I'd like to point out is that our beliefs shape us. In my country being transgender is considered gay. And the gay community is not welcome in the general public. In' fact if caught, the residents here kill them themselves. I guess it has a lot to do with location. If it's okay in your country then I have no problem. Then again, I have no interest in having sex with a transgenders. It's personal preference, so anyone who wants to do that I don't judge them
I respect your opinion though Ray! Thanks for your perspective
Troy
Ray_zorse,
Definitely! She told me she wanted to visit my country and meet me. I'm wary of doing that though and the warning signs you said are all true. I got a nude pic from her and I've confirmed that she is a woman.
#sigh of relief
One thing I'd like to point out is that our beliefs shape us. In my country being transgender is considered gay. And the gay community is not welcome in the general public. In' fact if caught, the residents here kill them themselves. I guess it has a lot to do with location. If it's okay in your country then I have no problem. Then again, I have no interest in having sex with a transgenders. It's personal preference, so anyone who wants to do that I don't judge them
I respect your opinion though Ray! Thanks for your perspective
Troy