It is difficult when you have to wait weeks for her to come back, while she is texting every day. But she is texting which means she is interested... I wouldn't show her too many emotions, I would avoid telling her directly that I like her but at the same time I would stay in contact. Which will probably be difficult as she may try to pull that information (whether you like her or not) from you.
For example, she may try something like this: I like you a lot, you are good looking guy and good person, do you like me?
1. I would never say: I like you too (did it in the past, lost that girl). This is too direct, she may grab that idea and keep thinking about it for too long. Which is not bad, but you are not around to prove it...
2. I would say something like: I was thinking, maybe we can go for a trip to ABC, or XYZ, what do you think, wouldn't that be great?
This way you keep it kind of fuzzy, perhaps even confusing (can't over-do it).
(a) You are not directly answering her question, she still needs to guess whether you like her or not. (b) You answered her question, so she thinks you are still interested, and you are still around. (c) Now there is a suggestion from you to be together in the future, once she gets back. Her head starts rolling out different plans, it doesn't have to by XYZ but XYZ is good enough. It may be this place or that place, nothing is decided yet. She has to think about it (which means she will kill some time by thinking about it). (d) You are showing her that there could be some action, you want her to be with you at one particular place. (e) You placed yourself to leading position, she should comply if she is interested, she should follow your suggestion. (f) You are moving things with her forward even though you are not there, she sees future with you. (g) She is thinking: Why wouldn't that be great to go to that place? It would be great!
I would try to keep things between you and her "neutral" while she is gone. You kinda want to keep her guessing, you want to show that there are great things ahead of you too, but at the same time you can't promise too much greatness because then she can get easily disappointed... Try to make her think about different THINGS, different PLACES, different PEOPLE - but not about you. You are just in the background, interested but not chasing...
It might be difficult to keep her around and interested for couple of weeks, but if she really likes you it won't be any problem for her, she'll wait months. Hope it helps...
For example, she may try something like this: I like you a lot, you are good looking guy and good person, do you like me?
1. I would never say: I like you too (did it in the past, lost that girl). This is too direct, she may grab that idea and keep thinking about it for too long. Which is not bad, but you are not around to prove it...
2. I would say something like: I was thinking, maybe we can go for a trip to ABC, or XYZ, what do you think, wouldn't that be great?
This way you keep it kind of fuzzy, perhaps even confusing (can't over-do it).
(a) You are not directly answering her question, she still needs to guess whether you like her or not. (b) You answered her question, so she thinks you are still interested, and you are still around. (c) Now there is a suggestion from you to be together in the future, once she gets back. Her head starts rolling out different plans, it doesn't have to by XYZ but XYZ is good enough. It may be this place or that place, nothing is decided yet. She has to think about it (which means she will kill some time by thinking about it). (d) You are showing her that there could be some action, you want her to be with you at one particular place. (e) You placed yourself to leading position, she should comply if she is interested, she should follow your suggestion. (f) You are moving things with her forward even though you are not there, she sees future with you. (g) She is thinking: Why wouldn't that be great to go to that place? It would be great!
I would try to keep things between you and her "neutral" while she is gone. You kinda want to keep her guessing, you want to show that there are great things ahead of you too, but at the same time you can't promise too much greatness because then she can get easily disappointed... Try to make her think about different THINGS, different PLACES, different PEOPLE - but not about you. You are just in the background, interested but not chasing...
It might be difficult to keep her around and interested for couple of weeks, but if she really likes you it won't be any problem for her, she'll wait months. Hope it helps...
