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IMPORTANT: Amount of time b4 reaching out again?

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Hey guys! First of all I sincerely thank you for taking your time to read my post, I know you all have lives full of girls! Lets cut to the point...at what time is it ok to re-establish a connection with a girl you previously had a "thing" with?

Heres the deal (Im 16 btw): This summer a girl and I really hit it off well, i read all these posts helping my game, and i was enjoying it. Unfortunately, i didn't read the article about how attraction expires and I took too long to make a move and we both lost interest. In the meantime, I've been experimenting with lots of girls and testing out my game. However, and I know this is slightly against Chase's huge rule, I want to start afresh with the girl. At what time can i revamp our connection? I do NOT want to be the chaser, but i want to be persistent so she knows im there. Since I gave her the "lets be friends for now" speech does that make me in a good position to pursue her again? What kind of interactions would be best to recreate the great feelings we had? I want to be clear to you guys that she is not the only girl i am pursuing, but I would like to keep my options for the future open.

Thanks and I would really appreciate it if you gave me a little of your time since you are a lot more experienced than I.
 

Smith

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"You can't repeat the past" - Nick in the Great Gatsby. lol

HOWEVER, it's worth a shot (but is it worth the effort?). Just make sure u don't get too emotionally attached. We always want things that we could almost have - that's one of the main reasons that lead to chasing.

Since I gave her the "lets be friends for now" speech does that make me in a good position to pursue her again?

lol bad parting shot.

Here's Chase's article on how to get a girl back.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/ultimate-guide-how-get-girl-back
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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