Imposter Syndrome

[Maverick2.0]

I've noticed that, while many self doubts are removed from my success, new doubts and mental roadblocks started to come up. Stunting my growth.

I had one my best streaks last week and then my brain began eating itself. I began to notice that a lot of my success came from night game, specifically in bars. Thoughts kept droning on like "I can't pull women outside of a bar" "alcohol is the only reason women give me a chance" "I can't find someone in a healthy environment, like a gym or church or a place of common interest"

I just noticed I've yet to pull someone via day game or "just living life" . It's always at a bar.

I didn't think about giving up entirely I just started to think about giving up on day game or finding someone outside of a bar.

Then I looked up imposter syndrome and realized that yeah that's most likely what I'm dealing with. Not being able to enjoy success and pinning it on other factors, not giving myself credit for it. I remember alot of people saying day game in general is alot harder. Then I also remembered I'm a beginner who's only two months in. I guess I just wasn't being patient. I'm sure as long as I don't give up I'll be able to find someone outside of the night.

I'm basically giving myself the solution to my own problem in this post, but I feel it's important to talk about things and be open about it.

I guess to make it relevant to the forum I can ask, has anyone dealt with this before?

 

[Kshatrap A.V.]

Learn to have faith in yourself and your abilities.

Too much focus on our thoughts lead to wasted time ( for me it was roughly 7-8 years).

I know how you feel like,.that's why telling you this.