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Improving Logistics, What to do in the meantime?

Quantum

Space Monkey
space monkey
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The most common problem beginners seem to have is poor logistics. After losing too many potential lays for this reason, I knew I needed to improve my living situation. I have a solution in place but it's going to take a little bit of time (probably another month or so).

So what should I do in the meantime? Most of my recent dates have started out really well but fizzled out do to poor logistics. The only time things ended well was when she took some initiative and we ended up going back to her place. Most of the girls I've been seeing are in their very early 20's so most of them live at home. This is making things much more difficult than they should be. I know there are some other options, but those aren't always the easiest to pull off.

I have a couple of girls interested through extended social circle but I've backed off because I have piss poor logistics. On one hand, I don't want their attraction to expire. But I also don't want to jump into something too early and miss out because I'm not in a position to make things happen. I probably should be acting on these but it almost feels like a waste. It's like taking a half court shot now or I could wait a little bit and shoot from the from the free throw line.

Any tips or advice would be appreciated!
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

ray_zorse

Modern Human
Modern Human
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Aug 12, 2014
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A month is much too long. Shoot for the 3 pointer now. Honestly there are so many things you can do. I got a great lay and a near miss (couldn't get hard) while in your situation (logistics now pretty tight tho). Just treat it as a challenge. If u have a car, use that, or borrow parents'/friend's. Ask a friend if u can use his room/appt at a specific time. Escalate on beach, in park, in shopping centre etc (breast-feeding rooms looked like they might be suitable when I checked yesterday)... use her logistics if any. If she's willing, do it!!!!!
Ray
 

Man-O

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Dec 16, 2014
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Feel you dude. It's frustrating having bad logistics, particularly when the girl has too and you know it could've turned out great if just one of you had decent logistics.

But I've had bad logistics for a year (since I started this). In the beginning it wasn't frustrating because I still wasn't near the lvl but slowly I got a girl here and there randy but I just didn't feel comfortable moving forward due to bad logistics and beta mentality. And later the logistics turned even worse so I'd only get dtf-girls.

But even then I kept improving my social skills going out. Still went for numbers and trying to work on fundamentals etc.. I've had several questions to this but never any decent answers because there isn't any rly. Not when the weather is too cold for out door action and even in car it's tricky. Getting caught on toilets knowing you'll be perma banned from the place if you're seen doing it again etc..

Short story:
Improve every other aspect of your life as best you can with your limited logistics and try to close girls in "fun" places by making them very horny.
 
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