Improving My Appearance

[Ken]

A few months ago, taking the advice that Eternity gave me, I let my hair grow out. All my life, I had a buzz cut. For the past few months, I gelled my hair every time I went out in public except for a few times where I wore a snapback.

Tomorrow, I'm going to get a haircut. And I want to know what I can do so it can be more sexy and be attractive to women.

Also, I want to improve my wardrobe for the same reason. How can I improve my wardrobe so I can be more attractive to women?

Here's a picture I took earlier today:

https://mobile.twitter.com/KennVelez/status/781545781899722753/photo/1

 

[foggy]

What kind of women do you want to attract? Keep that in mind when deciding on your wardrobe.

For example, I like artistic girls who like nature and thrift shopping. So, I wear a lot of bright, crazy patterned, vintage clothing.

 

[Inbocca]

I've tried the hair salon advice and one thing I noticed is that it looked good but a) still wasn't good enough (blaming the cowlick tbh) and b) it was hard to reproduce on my own. I think a lot of this boiled down to the fact that I didn't understand hair fashion at all. There's a guy on YouTube who covers a ton of stuff: different styles for different types of hair and faces (and they all look good), techniques for how to get a certain look, different products to use, and even other stuff like skin care and men's fashion.

Another thing I'd mention is make sure that your look fits your personality. It looks kind of out of place if you dress like a bro (snapback, university tank top, sandals with calf socks, etc.) but talk like you should be wearing a tuxedo at the President's ball. That being said, if you can get the right amount of balance (e.g., sound like one of the group, but one that stands out from the others) then it adds that coveted sense of intrigue. In other words, try to bring out elements in your personality of the archetype you're trying to look like.

 

[Ken]

Backstory,

I want to attract white and Spanish women.

 

[Ergon]

Sup!

There's a lot of subgroups for White and Spanish girls. Maybe you can think about the personality of the girls you want to attract and then build your image around what would attract them. Artistic, adventurous, perhaps early 20 women? Then an edgy and bold look would apply. Sophisticated, ambitious, business women? Something more sharp and casual-elegant fits.

I know this sounds like spam, but I really recommed all of Darius articles and his blog Sexy Style for Joe.
I think this is a good article to start with: http://sexystyleforjoe.com/good-looking-clothes/ plus his ebook what killed your sex appeal
I also follow his Instragram and pinterest because he has a bunch of examples of truly sexy and tasteful outfits in different categories like Edgy, Casual, Sharp and Rugged.

Also, off the top of my head:
Buttoned down shirts, v-neck t shirts, or scoop neck t shirts (plain, without brand names or graphics) are your go-to options.
You're not overweight, so a good pair of skinny jeans wouldn't be bad
A biker leather jacket or faux-leather biker jacket is always a nice item to have no matter what style you go for.

 

[Eternity]

Def looks better with long hair. I'd go with 4 on the sides and the back and a half an inch off da top so I can comb it. Go to a reputable place tho, Mario Triccoci perhaps. As for style...eh there's different styles, nobody can force one on you. Depends what you like: Playboy (suits, wingtips, name brand), hipster, gangster (Jordan's, Eko Ulmtd, chains, watches), mix and match different shit. Look up styles in GQ magazines,or other fashion magazines. People on the street, observe colors, patterns, style, brand, and make shit yo own...

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[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

stop looking so intense in your pic

 

[Alex471996]

Can't really tell the condition of your skin is from the pick but I think a good skincare routine is impotent for anyone. Moistening and cleansing daily and exfoliating a few times a week. Also wearing sunscreen daily (not just when its sunny) has been shown to slow ageing of the skin so if your in this game for the long haul its something to consider.