Hi all,
As always, shy inexperienced girls are still the hardest for me. I met this girl through social circle a few months ago and we still see one another quite regularly.
As I am still inexperienced myself, I'd made the mistakes of
1) making her peak too soon without proper logistics. I am usually very sexually aggressive (lots of eye contact, sensual, dirty conversation) and there had been several occasions where the sexual tension between us were very high (I could actually feel her getting horny) but due to improper logistics, I could not escalate her and bring her home. She usually turns quite cold after this, and only warms back up to me after a while (which usually involves me not chasing her)
2) when I finally managed to bring her to my bed, she put up lots of LMR and I didn't sleep with her. To be honest, I am still very inexperienced when it comes to escalation, and it didn't help that I had a very important meeting the next morning, so after half an hour or so I just gave up.
It's been a few weeks since, but now she's scared of going out with me (especially when I suggested my place) as I feel that she already knows what will happen if we did end up in my place. She had flaked a few times after we had arranged to hang out.
I believe she's still attracted to me (still sneak glances at me, gets jealous when I talk to other girls, and we have lots of sexual tension whenever we talk) but it seems as though part of her wants to sleep with me, but her conservative upbringing and inexperience are putting the brakes on her.
I wonder if there are still ways to salvage this? We still see each other in our social circle a few times every week though.
As always, shy inexperienced girls are still the hardest for me. I met this girl through social circle a few months ago and we still see one another quite regularly.
As I am still inexperienced myself, I'd made the mistakes of
1) making her peak too soon without proper logistics. I am usually very sexually aggressive (lots of eye contact, sensual, dirty conversation) and there had been several occasions where the sexual tension between us were very high (I could actually feel her getting horny) but due to improper logistics, I could not escalate her and bring her home. She usually turns quite cold after this, and only warms back up to me after a while (which usually involves me not chasing her)
2) when I finally managed to bring her to my bed, she put up lots of LMR and I didn't sleep with her. To be honest, I am still very inexperienced when it comes to escalation, and it didn't help that I had a very important meeting the next morning, so after half an hour or so I just gave up.
It's been a few weeks since, but now she's scared of going out with me (especially when I suggested my place) as I feel that she already knows what will happen if we did end up in my place. She had flaked a few times after we had arranged to hang out.
I believe she's still attracted to me (still sneak glances at me, gets jealous when I talk to other girls, and we have lots of sexual tension whenever we talk) but it seems as though part of her wants to sleep with me, but her conservative upbringing and inexperience are putting the brakes on her.
I wonder if there are still ways to salvage this? We still see each other in our social circle a few times every week though.
