[ Informational Date]How long and how to end them properly

[Witcher]

Hi all

Continuing my studes of Chase Book, and the articles of the site. I'm know into the dating thing and how to gt better at them. Considering my logistics and seduction levle for now , i higly need to go for informational dates first with girls,and sheduling a second date after that. All this done in the day time.

In this situation i don't find any information about on teh website about this specifics matters:

1)How long should last the informational dates, for the best results.
2)How the end should be, a kiss, a "classic good bye"?
3)What the focus of the fonrmatioanl date should be in this case, very deep rapport, lighter deep rapport, more repartee?

All this in the situtation that i want to go for a second date , and the informational date is the first one after been sheduled via text/phone an done in day time.

Thank you

 

[Thedoctor]

Witcher,

I'd always recommend pushing the envelope to see how far you can get. Don't automatically assume that you are at a level that requires you to have an informational date to make progress. Just something to keep in mind.

Here are my answers to your questions:
1) I'd say nothing lasting longer than an hour.
2) The important thing to remember is to end it on a high note during the date. Don't end it when the conversation has started to die down and the emotions have long since crested and died off. If you end it on a high note, this will make her want to see you again and will (hopefully) be what she thinks about until you see her next.
3) You should be ale to get some deep diving in here. You're trying to build a stronger connection with her, so you don't want to be keeping it too light.

-John

 

[Witcher]

Witcher,

I'd always recommend pushing the envelope to see how far you can get. Don't automatically assume that you are at a level that requires you to have an informational date to make progress. Just something to keep in mind.

Here are my answers to your questions:
1) I'd say nothing lasting longer than an hour.
2) The important thing to remember is to end it on a high note during the date. Don't end it when the conversation has started to die down and the emotions have long since crested and died off. If you end it on a high note, this will make her want to see you again and will (hopefully) be what she thinks about until you see her next.
3) You should be ale to get some deep diving in here. You're trying to build a stronger connection with her, so you don't want to be keeping it too light.

-John

Thank you for your answer Doctor, interesting and pratical. But i want to add more interrogation about them:

2) The important thing to remember is to end it on a high note during the date. Don't end it when the conversation has started to die down and the emotions have long since crested and died off. If you end it on a high note, this will make her want to see you again and will (hopefully) be what she thinks about until you see her next.

1)Should i end it with a kiss, ahd check kiss (like the feench), keeping in mind that i plan a second date.

2)What i thing is the most difficult is to end the date on this famoius high note , because the vibe is so "Agreable", that you really just dont want this to end, i'm having so much good time. but it's a necessary evil, so the things keep going good. I think i will use a timer in my phone to alert me that i need to stop that my the 1 hour mark.

3)What to do after the end? Texting her, telling her that it was good or nothing ?

 

[Thedoctor]

Witcher,

As I said, you never know until you try pushing your boundaries, so do not rely on an informational date as "part of your process" in most circumstances.

1) If you're going to kiss her at the end, read up on this article:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-k ... kissed-her

2)I wouldn't recommend a timer. Your watch won't know when the "high point" of the conversation is going to be. It's just something you'll have to remain aware of on your own

3) After a couple hours, text her saying you had a good time and that you hope the two of you can do it again soon. Do not schedule another date at this point. Wait another day or two to schedule the next one.

Info dates should really only be used if you think the girl is a bit more conservative or if she claims she's really busy and can't commit that much time (which can actually mean she's really busy, but most of the time she's just not fully "sold" on you yet, so best bring your A game when you do meet up).

-John

 

[Witcher]

Witcher,

As I said, you never know until you try pushing your boundaries, so do not rely on an informational date as "part of your process" in most circumstances.

1) If you're going to kiss her at the end, read up on this article:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-k ... kissed-her

3) After a couple hours, text her saying you had a good time and that you hope the two of you can do it again soon. Do not schedule another date at this point. Wait another day or two to schedule the next one.

Info dates should really only be used if you think the girl is a bit more conservative or if she claims she's really busy and can't commit that much time (which can actually mean she's really busy, but most of the time she's just not fully "sold" on you yet, so best bring your A game when you do meet up).

-John

I hope ican not go on informational date, but for now in my current situation, it's the best option until things get better. And also i go a lot fr conservative girls i like them a lot.

Soi i'm looking for teh best way to end an infirmational date.

 

[Witcher]

I will just UP the topic, casue i just wantto know how to end an infirmational date properly...

 

[Witcher]

Re for anoither question:

IS when i end it, does it by a Chek Kiss (like the frech does it) or just a happy social normal good bye?