Insight from men on this guy’s behavior needed

[KJ Francis]

So I downloaded Tinder and OkCupid and boy what a leftist cesspool these apps have become. Seeing the pride or BLM flag in mens’ bios is disgusting. The guys in my area are either overweight or need teeth implants None of them have any pics with women either (unsurprisingly). Zero fundamentals. But I’ll keep looking. Thank you for your advice.

Damn... I assume you live in a lowish population area. Might be worth adding Bumble, Hinge, and Feeld in there as well to widen the net.

Actually another good option might be Fetlife. It's like a mix between kinky social media and dating.

But it might be a good option because you will be able to find guys who have obvious experience. And many of them will take things like safe words pretty seriously. Look for a "daddy dom" if you want a more caring type. So you won't need to worry about some random Tinder guy saying he's fine just fooling around without sex but then switching up and putting a ton of pressure on you when you're together.