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I dressed down because I wasn’t feeling particularly special or motivated to dress up. I wore a plain white T-shirt and some old, discolored pants.
The first approach was with a three-set. I had two girls hooked, but I couldn’t decide which one I wanted. It was funny, I kept looking back and forth between them. Then the unattractive girl came in and messed it up, acting like a typical “pig looking fatty” who ruins interactions
Later, I saw a very pretty girl who was totally my type. Her legs looked amazing, and she was wearing a red dress. I thought she was beautiful. I did a standard day game approach: I turned around, walked her down a bit, and opened on the side of her peripheral vision after a couple of seconds. It might have been a triggering pre-open. She stopped, which is a good sign, though some inexperienced girls might feel intimidated or unsure since they don’t often experience this.
She was quite receptive, and I slowed down the conversation. We added each other on a messaging app, but I had trouble with the app, and it didn’t go through at first, she didn’t get any notification. We talked for about three or four minutes before I invited her to a coffee shop. It was an upscale place. She offered to pay, but I said no. Looking back, I should have let her pay. It could have helped me maintain a stronger frame, as there’s an upside to having a girl invest in you. When girls pay, they’re less likely to see you as a simp, even if they backward rationalize the dude was an idiot or whatever
when we were walking over, I jokingly told her she could call the cops if I'm weird We had an interesting conversation about life. She seemed naive, or acts like it, like a girl who stays home a lot despite being pretty. I’m sure my approach aroused some interest.
We didn’t share anything too personal. I found out where she was from, but I didn’t touch her at first, which might have been a mistake. If she was compliant, I should have rewarded her with some kino escalation—light touching, about ten minutes into the interaction
We left the coffee shop and went to another venue, a lounge. I felt there was decent interest since she changed venues with me. Initially, she was about to sit across from me, but I told her, “This isn’t an interview, come sit next to me,” which was good. If she had sat across from me, it would have ruined the vibe faster. There was some light touching, but I had to use the bathroom twice because I drank too much coffee. Breaking circle the interaction like that might have affected the dynamic, though I’m not sure if it caused her to block me later.
At the lounge, we got physically closer, but she froze up at some point and stopped talking as much. I have a hunch it was female state control—she’d just met me, after all. Stupidly, I brought up the boyfriend topic, joking about when she last had one and whether she had one now. I shouldn’t have mentioned it because it might have triggered something. Make things worse, annoying waiter, saying another customer was coming and we had to change tables or leave, in that tone. I wanted to break his face.... she said she had to go. I tried to change her schedule, suggesting she talk to her friends another time, but she said no and left, and I said I want to invite you out with my friend next week blah blah blah "ok let's stay in touch"
A taxi pulled up, and she quickly left, IDK if she saw me trying to hug her and she brushed me off lol. I didn’t escalate much physically,unlike the other girl I kissed at a lounge. With this one, I only touched her head, hair and head lightly, with some accidental touches from both sides, but nothing overtly sexual.
I texted her later to ask if she got home safely, and she replied that she did. I didn’t respond after that. The next day, I tried texting her something funny, only to find out she’d blocked me. I don’t know what happened. Maybe she rationalized that the escalation was too fast or outside her norm. It’s weird—she was a very beautiful girl, really liked her
The first approach was with a three-set. I had two girls hooked, but I couldn’t decide which one I wanted. It was funny, I kept looking back and forth between them. Then the unattractive girl came in and messed it up, acting like a typical “pig looking fatty” who ruins interactions
Later, I saw a very pretty girl who was totally my type. Her legs looked amazing, and she was wearing a red dress. I thought she was beautiful. I did a standard day game approach: I turned around, walked her down a bit, and opened on the side of her peripheral vision after a couple of seconds. It might have been a triggering pre-open. She stopped, which is a good sign, though some inexperienced girls might feel intimidated or unsure since they don’t often experience this.
She was quite receptive, and I slowed down the conversation. We added each other on a messaging app, but I had trouble with the app, and it didn’t go through at first, she didn’t get any notification. We talked for about three or four minutes before I invited her to a coffee shop. It was an upscale place. She offered to pay, but I said no. Looking back, I should have let her pay. It could have helped me maintain a stronger frame, as there’s an upside to having a girl invest in you. When girls pay, they’re less likely to see you as a simp, even if they backward rationalize the dude was an idiot or whatever
when we were walking over, I jokingly told her she could call the cops if I'm weird We had an interesting conversation about life. She seemed naive, or acts like it, like a girl who stays home a lot despite being pretty. I’m sure my approach aroused some interest.
We didn’t share anything too personal. I found out where she was from, but I didn’t touch her at first, which might have been a mistake. If she was compliant, I should have rewarded her with some kino escalation—light touching, about ten minutes into the interaction
We left the coffee shop and went to another venue, a lounge. I felt there was decent interest since she changed venues with me. Initially, she was about to sit across from me, but I told her, “This isn’t an interview, come sit next to me,” which was good. If she had sat across from me, it would have ruined the vibe faster. There was some light touching, but I had to use the bathroom twice because I drank too much coffee. Breaking circle the interaction like that might have affected the dynamic, though I’m not sure if it caused her to block me later.
At the lounge, we got physically closer, but she froze up at some point and stopped talking as much. I have a hunch it was female state control—she’d just met me, after all. Stupidly, I brought up the boyfriend topic, joking about when she last had one and whether she had one now. I shouldn’t have mentioned it because it might have triggered something. Make things worse, annoying waiter, saying another customer was coming and we had to change tables or leave, in that tone. I wanted to break his face.... she said she had to go. I tried to change her schedule, suggesting she talk to her friends another time, but she said no and left, and I said I want to invite you out with my friend next week blah blah blah "ok let's stay in touch"
A taxi pulled up, and she quickly left, IDK if she saw me trying to hug her and she brushed me off lol. I didn’t escalate much physically,unlike the other girl I kissed at a lounge. With this one, I only touched her head, hair and head lightly, with some accidental touches from both sides, but nothing overtly sexual.
I texted her later to ask if she got home safely, and she replied that she did. I didn’t respond after that. The next day, I tried texting her something funny, only to find out she’d blocked me. I don’t know what happened. Maybe she rationalized that the escalation was too fast or outside her norm. It’s weird—she was a very beautiful girl, really liked her
