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Meet
I opened her by complimenting her on her outfit. First I was walking with her and then she told me she wanted to go to a store, but I wasn't sure if she was blowing me off or if she was expecting me to come along, so I just went along and as I went with her she asked me some question. (so that confirmed she was expecting me to come along). To get some compliance early on, I asked her to show me her earrings, btw. She was following my lead and we went to this shop that I wanted to go. She's living at a hostel and will be going back at 4 for a barbecue.
Bounce to Cafe
Then we walk some more and I take her to a cafe. It's hard to understand her english and my spanish is not up to par. So just figuring out that she lived in a hostel took a long time. She would say oosa instead of USA. it was pretty confusing.
I learn she's studying agriculture and wants to learn about growing grapes. I ask her what made her pick that and it's because her parents sell grapes so she was born in that lifestyle. I joke that whenever I need some good wine, I can call her. I was using some incidental touch and once my hand lingered on her arm but that was about it. I think other than that I didn't build too much arousal. Since the language was a barrier I should focus on building arousal through other ways such as talking slowly, and using purr. Maybe I could've talked about dating cultures while we were sitting in the cafe, side by side.
Then around 3:40, she says she has to go back to the hostel for her barbecue. So I walk her part of the way and exchange whatsapp with her.
Aftermath
Throughout, she was constantly getting cat memes and texts from some girl from the hostel and it was distracting her. She said she was down to get drinks on tuesday and she responded to my ice breaker text on whatsapp. But when I texted her today to ask her about her outing she did not respond. (My plan was to text asking about her outing and then ask her what time is good to hangout on tuesday).
Your thoughts and comments welcome! Also, If I could've added more detail somewhere let me know. I was a bit brief with this write up.
I opened her by complimenting her on her outfit. First I was walking with her and then she told me she wanted to go to a store, but I wasn't sure if she was blowing me off or if she was expecting me to come along, so I just went along and as I went with her she asked me some question. (so that confirmed she was expecting me to come along). To get some compliance early on, I asked her to show me her earrings, btw. She was following my lead and we went to this shop that I wanted to go. She's living at a hostel and will be going back at 4 for a barbecue.
Bounce to Cafe
Then we walk some more and I take her to a cafe. It's hard to understand her english and my spanish is not up to par. So just figuring out that she lived in a hostel took a long time. She would say oosa instead of USA. it was pretty confusing.
I learn she's studying agriculture and wants to learn about growing grapes. I ask her what made her pick that and it's because her parents sell grapes so she was born in that lifestyle. I joke that whenever I need some good wine, I can call her. I was using some incidental touch and once my hand lingered on her arm but that was about it. I think other than that I didn't build too much arousal. Since the language was a barrier I should focus on building arousal through other ways such as talking slowly, and using purr. Maybe I could've talked about dating cultures while we were sitting in the cafe, side by side.
Then around 3:40, she says she has to go back to the hostel for her barbecue. So I walk her part of the way and exchange whatsapp with her.
Aftermath
Throughout, she was constantly getting cat memes and texts from some girl from the hostel and it was distracting her. She said she was down to get drinks on tuesday and she responded to my ice breaker text on whatsapp. But when I texted her today to ask her about her outing she did not respond. (My plan was to text asking about her outing and then ask her what time is good to hangout on tuesday).
Your thoughts and comments welcome! Also, If I could've added more detail somewhere let me know. I was a bit brief with this write up.
