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"So how often do girls talk to you when you approach them like this 
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Outfit: I was wearing a floral bomber jacket, white v-neck, gray jeans, and white sneakers.
I went to my usual hunting grounds. Let's call her hbprague because that's where she's from. I noticed her walking down the street and I thought her ass looked amazing in the yoga pants. She had a "hot south american" look to her. Another dude was probably checking her out too, as I learned later...
The Meet
I go up to her and tell her that I thought she looked beautiful but she doesn't take my hand because it's greasy and she's eating a cookie. She immediately asks me if I'm from here and I tell her I'm a student. I learn that she's from Prague and here for a few months on vacation. She says she's trying to find a coffee shop that's not too crowded. I suggest the Starbucks nearby but she says she doesn't like cafes where people eat and talk (she proceeded to eat and talk with me for 2hrs btw) So I ask her what kind of cafe she's looking for and she wants a chill type cafe.
Walking to the Cafe
I tell her that we can keep walking and find one on the way, and that the area we're in will definitely not have one that's quiet. She agrees and we keep walking. Then she asks me to check on my phone the name of a cafe she knows(her phone is actually dead) I wanted to pretend my phone was dead if it ever came to exchanging numbers, but now I couldn't because we were using maps to find the cafe. It turns out to be in the same direction we were headed. We talk about basic stuff such as why she's here in my city (b/c she likes the beaches and stuff) and I jokingly ask her if she's here to meet a secret lover. She says not secret. So I ask if its serious and she says no.
As we're walking some dude behind me says "nice jacket". At first I'm not sure who he's talking to so I ignore him. But he repeats himself and says "hey nice jacket", "where'd you get it, man". I continue to ignore him b/c something was off in his tone and I felt like he was probably trying to tool me. and then a dude walking past me from the other direction also complimented me on my jacket I acknowledged him b/c he seemed genuine. The original dude comes by my side and tries to get my attention, while hbprague is still talking, oblivious to all of this. I'm giving her my attention so I just put up a finger as to say "wait" to the other dude. He goes into auto rejection and walks on. I realize he was originally walking behind hbprague before I had approached her. Not sure if it was the right call, but the guy just seemed a little off. and I didn't want to break circle. Throughout the walk, she's following my lead, and I'm touching her periodically. I'm still not clear on what she does so I ask her about that and it turns out her passion is writing, and she does some bartending on the side. So I ask her about any crazy stories that happened while she was bartending and she's telling me about some woman who took a dump on the floor.
At the Cafe
We decide to sit side by side looking out the window. She's telling me about how she likes cafes where she can quietly sit and read and I tell her I like to read in th B&N and she relates that she loves to do that too, so I tell her about a B&N in a big shopping district in my city.
Her: So tell me,...what is the success rate of stopping girls on the street. What is the percentage you are successful and have the girl talk to you back?
Me: I'd say it works 69% of the time.
Her: 69? Where did you come up with this number
Me: I'm just teasing you...
Her: No I know, I was also teasing you by where did you come up with this number?
Me: Do people talk to you often like this?
She tells me that it happens sometimes and she likes to give everyone a chance but it doesn't mean she will want to see them again. And how she notices some guys are really awkward and nervous but when they calm down they're okay. That as long as they're being respectful she says it's fine and that she's a good person to practice on. She tells me how one guy approached her like that and told her that he was learning how to approach girls and that he used to have a heavy stutter. She talked to him for an hour. (I realize there's a risk with having her go into autorejection) so I transition to saying how because of online dating and social media, people don't learn how to connect with an attractive stranger they met on the street. She asks me why that is and I say that it's because of social media and online dating. We talk about that a little and she thinks people can do both, because she met her bf from tinder, an indian guy from dubai, and she only gave him a chance to message her b/c she saw he super-liked her. So I share a story about how I met my ex in a similar way. She asks me if she's white-american or indian, or what, So I tell her she was chinese actually. And she asks to see my tinder and my profile. But I didn't have it anymore (I haven't for a while now)
So then she asks me what I had in my bio and it was 2 truths and a lie. She guesses the lie and then says I could've done something like say "I went on a gangbang when I was 15...and it was on youtube...or redtube" (Oh so we're talking about sex now??)
So I ask her if she were to give me 2 truths and a lie a gang bang would be on there.
She says:"it's on my wishlist...I'm kidding"
Me: It's not that uncommon to have on a wishlist actually
Her: Of course, people can do what they want
Me: Exactly
Her: It's just I wish I was the kind of person who could just go for it
launches into how she needs an emotional connection. She tells me how you need sexual energy, connections, and gives an example of how if you're having sex with two girls and one is someone you have a connection with, they could be doing the same thing but you'd be more into the first one. So I say that at that point it's about "purity" and by that I mean pure desire, and just giving into your desires and not thinking about the specific relationships because that way you can enjoy the moment. She launches into an explanation of how sex with her bf wasn't that good b/c she was insecure about her body(she's beautiful though) and how she's actually more attracted to girls, and thats what she's imagined her whole life. We also touched upon queen theory.
then she launches into a half-hour rant about some crazy ex-lover who is a 37 yo alcoholic woman who still lives with her crazy overbearing sociopathic parents. Literally...she talked for half and hour nonstop and I couldn't get a word in edgewise let alone figure out how to cut the damn thread. The last hour or so of this ended up being her just talking about slightly negative topics and me just nodding my head and saying "yea" periodically. I should've stared at her nose instead to subtly give her the message that this was draining AF. One thing though is she was touching me a lot and running her hand through her hair constantly. When she was telling me the story, she would basically act it out by touching my arm or taking my hand in hers or massaging my shoulder. This is actually great technique to remember for later. because I only do incidental contact but this was a really smooth way to do more.
Wrap Up
The cafe was closing and since her phone was dead, she was messaging a friend to call her an uber home. While she's doing that, I tell her again about the shopping district and another market and she tags both of them on maps, I tell her I could take her there sometime. Her uber arrives so she suggests putting her number in my whatsapp but I dont know how to add contacts, so she just puts in her email(so I did not break my vow of no phone numbers). I email her my number and tell her she can add me on whatsapp. Unfortunately, I was not looking to pull because I had to do a skype call later when I got home, but this one would've been a golden opportunity to try.
"Outfit: I was wearing a floral bomber jacket, white v-neck, gray jeans, and white sneakers.
I went to my usual hunting grounds. Let's call her hbprague because that's where she's from. I noticed her walking down the street and I thought her ass looked amazing in the yoga pants. She had a "hot south american" look to her. Another dude was probably checking her out too, as I learned later...
The Meet
I go up to her and tell her that I thought she looked beautiful but she doesn't take my hand because it's greasy and she's eating a cookie. She immediately asks me if I'm from here and I tell her I'm a student. I learn that she's from Prague and here for a few months on vacation. She says she's trying to find a coffee shop that's not too crowded. I suggest the Starbucks nearby but she says she doesn't like cafes where people eat and talk (she proceeded to eat and talk with me for 2hrs btw) So I ask her what kind of cafe she's looking for and she wants a chill type cafe.
Walking to the Cafe
I tell her that we can keep walking and find one on the way, and that the area we're in will definitely not have one that's quiet. She agrees and we keep walking. Then she asks me to check on my phone the name of a cafe she knows(her phone is actually dead) I wanted to pretend my phone was dead if it ever came to exchanging numbers, but now I couldn't because we were using maps to find the cafe. It turns out to be in the same direction we were headed. We talk about basic stuff such as why she's here in my city (b/c she likes the beaches and stuff) and I jokingly ask her if she's here to meet a secret lover. She says not secret. So I ask if its serious and she says no.
As we're walking some dude behind me says "nice jacket". At first I'm not sure who he's talking to so I ignore him. But he repeats himself and says "hey nice jacket", "where'd you get it, man". I continue to ignore him b/c something was off in his tone and I felt like he was probably trying to tool me. and then a dude walking past me from the other direction also complimented me on my jacket I acknowledged him b/c he seemed genuine. The original dude comes by my side and tries to get my attention, while hbprague is still talking, oblivious to all of this. I'm giving her my attention so I just put up a finger as to say "wait" to the other dude. He goes into auto rejection and walks on. I realize he was originally walking behind hbprague before I had approached her. Not sure if it was the right call, but the guy just seemed a little off. and I didn't want to break circle. Throughout the walk, she's following my lead, and I'm touching her periodically. I'm still not clear on what she does so I ask her about that and it turns out her passion is writing, and she does some bartending on the side. So I ask her about any crazy stories that happened while she was bartending and she's telling me about some woman who took a dump on the floor.
At the Cafe
We decide to sit side by side looking out the window. She's telling me about how she likes cafes where she can quietly sit and read and I tell her I like to read in th B&N and she relates that she loves to do that too, so I tell her about a B&N in a big shopping district in my city.
Her: So tell me,...what is the success rate of stopping girls on the street. What is the percentage you are successful and have the girl talk to you back?
Me: I'd say it works 69% of the time.
Her: 69? Where did you come up with this number
Me: I'm just teasing you...
Her: No I know, I was also teasing you by where did you come up with this number?
Me: Do people talk to you often like this?
She tells me that it happens sometimes and she likes to give everyone a chance but it doesn't mean she will want to see them again. And how she notices some guys are really awkward and nervous but when they calm down they're okay. That as long as they're being respectful she says it's fine and that she's a good person to practice on. She tells me how one guy approached her like that and told her that he was learning how to approach girls and that he used to have a heavy stutter. She talked to him for an hour. (I realize there's a risk with having her go into autorejection) so I transition to saying how because of online dating and social media, people don't learn how to connect with an attractive stranger they met on the street. She asks me why that is and I say that it's because of social media and online dating. We talk about that a little and she thinks people can do both, because she met her bf from tinder, an indian guy from dubai, and she only gave him a chance to message her b/c she saw he super-liked her. So I share a story about how I met my ex in a similar way. She asks me if she's white-american or indian, or what, So I tell her she was chinese actually. And she asks to see my tinder and my profile. But I didn't have it anymore (I haven't for a while now)
So then she asks me what I had in my bio and it was 2 truths and a lie. She guesses the lie and then says I could've done something like say "I went on a gangbang when I was 15...and it was on youtube...or redtube" (Oh so we're talking about sex now??)
So I ask her if she were to give me 2 truths and a lie a gang bang would be on there.
She says:"it's on my wishlist...I'm kidding"
Me: It's not that uncommon to have on a wishlist actually
Her: Of course, people can do what they want
Me: Exactly
Her: It's just I wish I was the kind of person who could just go for it
launches into how she needs an emotional connection. She tells me how you need sexual energy, connections, and gives an example of how if you're having sex with two girls and one is someone you have a connection with, they could be doing the same thing but you'd be more into the first one. So I say that at that point it's about "purity" and by that I mean pure desire, and just giving into your desires and not thinking about the specific relationships because that way you can enjoy the moment. She launches into an explanation of how sex with her bf wasn't that good b/c she was insecure about her body(she's beautiful though) and how she's actually more attracted to girls, and thats what she's imagined her whole life. We also touched upon queen theory.
then she launches into a half-hour rant about some crazy ex-lover who is a 37 yo alcoholic woman who still lives with her crazy overbearing sociopathic parents. Literally...she talked for half and hour nonstop and I couldn't get a word in edgewise let alone figure out how to cut the damn thread. The last hour or so of this ended up being her just talking about slightly negative topics and me just nodding my head and saying "yea" periodically. I should've stared at her nose instead to subtly give her the message that this was draining AF. One thing though is she was touching me a lot and running her hand through her hair constantly. When she was telling me the story, she would basically act it out by touching my arm or taking my hand in hers or massaging my shoulder. This is actually great technique to remember for later. because I only do incidental contact but this was a really smooth way to do more.
Wrap Up
The cafe was closing and since her phone was dead, she was messaging a friend to call her an uber home. While she's doing that, I tell her again about the shopping district and another market and she tags both of them on maps, I tell her I could take her there sometime. Her uber arrives so she suggests putting her number in my whatsapp but I dont know how to add contacts, so she just puts in her email(so I did not break my vow of no phone numbers
). I email her my number and tell her she can add me on whatsapp. Unfortunately, I was not looking to pull because I had to do a skype call later when I got home, but this one would've been a golden opportunity to try.