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Intent of this eye contact from women

kalakol

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Ive been reading GC for a while, and trying things has yielded a lot of results while im in my final year of college.
The focus on fundamentals so far has gotten me to really high value, and something
im still struggling with is balancing attainability, so I dont come off a complete douche.

My question: more recently, something ive noticed is that girls will keep checking me out, quite frequently , especially when im not looking
( or can see them from the corner of my eye ;) . This definitely increased once i started working out and got my "sexy walk" down.

What puzzles me is how this eye contact continues : some girls will immediately look away/look down when I make eye contact;
others will hold eye contact for a while, but almost like staring : not saying hi or smiling. And this happens with girls I know as well as strangers !
I dont understand the intention here : some girls definitely seem intimidated/scared in my presence, yet will connect and share
some deep,personal stuff as well. Insights would be very helpful.

Also, chase had an article on being perceived as a different status - higher or lower- than you actually are, and how to deal with:
and i havent been able to find that article despite a full day of searching !!!
 

Marty

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You have to open to find out. Not only will this ensure you don't miss an opportunity, it will teach you a lot (after several repetitions) about the meaning of the eye contact in that context; it will have fringe benefits in developing your confidence and self-presentation ability; and it will enhance your fundamentals (again after a few dozen repetitions).

Today a very pretty petite girl caught my eye as I walked down the street and stared HARD. I turned, watched her traverse a plaza, walked parallel with her but on the other side of some street repairs, saw her enter CVS, entered CVS myself 20 seconds later, grabbed a basket, headed into the store in search of her. When I saw her she gave me the same stare AGAIN, then scuttled off. I figured where she was now standing, walked over to her and when I got the same unsmiling stare a third time, I opened very direct.

She lit up, agreed to dinner and gave me her number. She's a consultant at a top business service firm. I'm just about to send her an icebreaker text now.

Do it. It's so rewarding, regardless of the outcome.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
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