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Interesting way to slide into sexual topics and sextalk?

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Super easy- any topics at an emotional
level are super easy to slide into sex talk. Check out some of the gambits by Alex on the site, he’s got ways of transitioning.

Some of my favorites are the following:
1. Talk about travel (every bitch loves travel) > talk about adventure > talk about freedom > talk about how guys are more free than girls > talk about secret society stuff and then sex talk

2. Comment on anything you like and say something like “its almost better than sex,” and then look at her all sexy like and repeat “almost.” Then transition into a topic or question about sex

3. Current events- Talk about johnny depp and amber trial and then talk about how amber fucked someone else and then ask the morality of the issue and whose side she was on. Don’t let the topic turn political, instead make a cheeky comment like “you think the other guy had better dick” > “whats the best sex you’ve ever had?” From there once the convo is on sex, you can slip in a ton of sex talk
 

PureGold

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Super easy- any topics at an emotional
level are super easy to slide into sex talk. Check out some of the gambits by Alex on the site, he’s got ways of transitioning.

Some of my favorites are the following:
1. Talk about travel (every bitch loves travel) > talk about adventure > talk about freedom > talk about how guys are more free than girls > talk about secret society stuff and then sex talk

2. Comment on anything you like and say something like “its almost better than sex,” and then look at her all sexy like and repeat “almost.” Then transition into a topic or question about sex

3. Current events- Talk about johnny depp and amber trial and then talk about how amber fucked someone else and then ask the morality of the issue and whose side she was on. Don’t let the topic turn political, instead make a cheeky comment like “you think the other guy had better dick” > “whats the best sex you’ve ever had?” From there once the convo is on sex, you can slip in a ton of sex talk
Your second point is VERY top. I used that phrase when I was in high school but now you bring it here and make realize how useful it was. Thank you
 

DonGately

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So I mostly use indirect game, but obvs during the pickup you have to go direct once comfort is achieved and sexualize the convo. I pretty much just directly bring up sex talk. 'Are you kinky?' 'What's the craziest place you've had sex...have you ever fooled around with girls...I hear girls are watching more porn these days.' "I had to break it off with the last girl I was seeing, the sex was amazing but she got super-clingy and jealous.' "Short skirts are great for a quickie!"

If you want to have dirty, kinky, mind-blowing fantasy sex at some point you're probably going to have to talk about what you both are into before launching into bondage/choking/toys/etc.
 

JollyRoger

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I tend to bring it up in relation to other people, how it's viewed in society. I do it in a matter of fact way rather than with a cheesy grin on my face.

If/when the vibe between us escalates then I make it more personal about we're both into.
 

hey_lover

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My current go-to segue way into sexual reframing is asking her what she studied at Uni. Then when she returns the question, say that I studied sexual philosophy and start talking about sexual double standards, Madonna Whore Complex and the origins of the slut label. The beauty of this is that you can plausibally introduce these topics very early as you're talking about your studies.

Then I'll fractionate out and when I return to segue way into sexual prizing, I'll state that I recently ordered 50 shades of grey, ask her if shes read it and then do a few sexual prizing gambits off the back of that.
 
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Raprebell

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Super easy- any topics at an emotional
level are super easy to slide into sex talk. Check out some of the gambits by Alex on the site, he’s got ways of transitioning.

Some of my favorites are the following:
1. Talk about travel (every bitch loves travel) > talk about adventure > talk about freedom > talk about how guys are more free than girls > talk about secret society stuff and then sex talk

2. Comment on anything you like and say something like “its almost better than sex,” and then look at her all sexy like and repeat “almost.” Then transition into a topic or question about sex

3. Current events- Talk about johnny depp and amber trial and then talk about how amber fucked someone else and then ask the morality of the issue and whose side she was on. Don’t let the topic turn political, instead make a cheeky comment like “you think the other guy had better dick” > “whats the best sex you’ve ever had?” From there once the convo is on sex, you can slip in a ton of sex talk
To point one. What if she is gonna mention, what if your daughter slept with many men as much as she wants?
She would be actually right. The higher the nc the more likelier she will be emotionally damaged. Some woman are aware that that would be the case and some aren’t. So be prepared for that question. I think there was also a Thread from Chase about that to be prepared for that
 

Raprebell

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My current go-to segue way into sexual reframing is asking her what she studied at Uni. Then when she returns the question, say that I studied sexual philosophy and start talking about sexual double standards, Madonna Whore Complex and the origins of the slut label. The beauty of this is that you can plausibally introduce these topics very early as you're talking about your studies.

Then I'll fractionate out and when I return to segue way into sexual prizing, I'll state that I recently ordered 50 shades of grey, ask her if shes read it and then do a few sexual prizing gambits off the back of that.
Do you do that stuff also over text? Or dp you use sex talk, sexual prizing only in reallife? And could you elaborate on your sexual prizing what exactly are you telling them
 
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