Investment Scales in a Relationship

[Skills]

You’re right, I’m extremely analytical.

I spent 10 years learning everything I know about women and seduction on this site and from a few other sources and I have a tendency to break things down to the most minute level to gain an advantage.

I like the way you explained all of that and it makes a ton of sense. I went into the relationship as a lover, my worry is always her changing how she seems me and starts seeing me as a full on provider instead.

You say my focus is off, and I agree with you… what should my focus be on then? @Skills

You need to stop the betatization attempts as the relationship progresses, she giving you rules and drama or disrespect... strong boundaries and leadership...make sure you keep being attractive and still do you... you will be fine..but my point is dont worry so much as enjoying the things you want to do financially as long as she is not taking advantage, using you, or she feeling entitled... and almost forgot dont ever let a girl put you in the sex rationing program, if she denies or use sex as barganing, she is out...