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Wasn't too sure to title this post. What I'm curious to know is how to text after she starts ghosting/losing investment. DO you start high effort and then decrease over time, or always go high effort/positivity?
e.g.
1st text:
Hey XXX
hope your week was good, my weekend was crazy. Thinking we grab that bite/drink this week, what's your schedule like?
Let's say she doesn't respond.
Text 2 - Hey XXX, Hope you're having an awesome tuesday
No response
Text 3 [GIF of something] or You still alive, or do I need to throw on my tights and cape to come rescue you?
Or do you always go high effort like in text #1?
And all of this is done in a non needy way, like days apart. I'm unsure of how to proceed when things initially went well, but then she flakes, and then ghosts. And then how often to persist?
e.g.
1st text:
Hey XXX
hope your week was good, my weekend was crazy. Thinking we grab that bite/drink this week, what's your schedule like?Let's say she doesn't respond.
Text 2 - Hey XXX,
Hope you're having an awesome tuesdayNo response
Text 3 [GIF of something] or You still alive, or do I need to throw on my tights and cape to come rescue you?
Or do you always go high effort like in text #1?
And all of this is done in a non needy way, like days apart. I'm unsure of how to proceed when things initially went well, but then she flakes, and then ghosts. And then how often to persist?
