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FR++  Iris and her awesome boobs

Seppuku

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Well this doesn't classify as an LR since I didn't manage my way through the LMR. I nevertheless ended up sucking the most majestic boobs I ever seen and it was a lot of fun.

Background
Iris is a 24 year old Kenyan girl with whom I matched in Badoo on Oct 23. There is very little online exchange and we quickly switch to WhatsApp. She’s been in Doha for three weeks so she has questions and I give her some perspective, and we exchange a few pictures. In the course of our discussion I tell her we should meet some time, and she’s OK. On the 25th she informs me that she finished duty at 1pm and we convene for a meeting the same evening, 6pm at her place.

The date
When I reach and see her first time, she’s stunning. That's the thing with online dating, you only see the real woman when you land your first date with her. Beautiful face, and womanly shapes like only African girls possess. Rugged blue jean, and a decollete exposing a massive pair of boobs, overall very sexy. I came to the meeting a little skeptic, with a “let’s see” sort of mindset, but I’m immediately convinced when I see her. It is agreed that we’ll have a brief meal then go for drinks. In the car, I keep my cool while focusing on driving, and next to me I can feel her looking at me and trying to draw attention on her. I open my hand near hers, and she puts her hand in mine. Meantime, I keep her talking, she’s a sales woman in a shop, and she mentions how so many guys keep staring at her boobs. “Are they that big?” she asks me. “I was focused on driving. Let me see.” I look at her boobs ostensibly. “Indeed they look… very sizable!” Smiles.

I take her to an Italian restaurant near my place, reasonable prices, and I know the staff there very well. As we eat the manager of the restaurant comes to greet me, which gives me some social pre-selection. I deep dive her and carefully avoid staring at her majestic boobs. We touch hands and she appreciates my warmth. We’re done. She asks “where are you taking me?” I mention two bars, one being the Strata skybar at the Intercontinental next to my place. The issue is, her company is still processing her residency permit and she does not have an id card yet, and many bars ask for id card for entrance. Now, the Intercontinental has only recently started asking for id cards, so I pretend to ignore it. We walk to the Intercontinental hand in hand, she’s very flirty, smiling, and very much showing her boobs. We reach the Strata at 55th floor. They ask for id cards. I look surprised. “Since when?” “We started about two months ago”. So now I have alibi ;-) Gross trick, I know, lol.

LMR at my place
“OK now darling I suggest we go to my place and have some wine”. No protests, good. Soon, she’s in my home, we enjoy the view (22nd floor) I have her in my arms, my hands on her hips. “Let’s have wine!” she says. We’re now on my sofa, glasses of wine, music in the background. Chat a bit, she explains her personal circumstances, and how she decided to come to Doha. I take her glass of wine out of her hand and put it on the table. I approach my lips from her and wait. She smiles. I go for the kiss. She kisses very well. Long kiss. More wine, more chat, again. This time I kiss her neck. My hand on her boob. “You like?” she asks. I absolutely love them, they’re huge. I kiss her boob, the exposed part first, caressing the nipple through the dress, then take out the whole boob out of bra and dress, and now give it a long, good suck. Then suck the other. She’s moaning. She wants to see my dick, I show her. “You’re not circumcised?” No I’m not. She now takes bit of distance.

No need to describe more, it's rince and reapeat. The game will continue for over an hour. I escalate, and when she’s getting very horny she pauses and takes distance. Ultimately, she will remove her top and ask me to suck her boobs while she fingers herself. When I try to remove her jeans, it’s a no. While she fingers herself I finally manage my hand to her pussy, from behind, and slide two fingers in. She comes. After that, she dresses on and asks me to go. I drive her home.

Some reflections
* First, it's really surprising how easy it is to pull home. Out of my 9 recent dates I've succeeded to pull 8 times
* Second, I used a gross trick here to bring her home. Oh too bad they ask for id card, so we dont have a choice now, come home with me. That was probably not necessary. I still have some residual mental barriers against pulling.
* Third, the "where are you taking me" is a recurring question. I suspect it's only a test on your lover frame. Are you strong enough. You freak out, you give in and say something weak like, let's go to that bar. I suspect it would be just fine to say straight "let's go home to have some wine". That's strong. Considering the little resistance I had when I took her home, it should have worked just fine and put me in stronger position.
* Fourth. I realize that I have little experience in handling LMR. Here, she was stronger than me all the time and only allowed me to do what she wanted, and remained in full control all the time. I should have been more aggressive here. I think it's lack of calibration. I'm not calibrated to a girl that strong.

Anyway that was a good experience and very enjoyable memory. I doubt we have a second date. I will definitely not chase her on this.

Comments and ideas welcome. Wondering how other guys out there would have proceeded.

Cheers,
Seppuku
 

Sophisticated Gent

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Seppuku,

I just read the following lay report by charming that parallels your report on LMR. It gives an excellent example of how to handle a beautiful women with high LMR. Give it a read.

viewtopic.php?f=5&t=1141

BDSC
 

Seppuku

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Hey Big Daddy,

Thanks man, interesting link indeed. More aggressive, more persistent.

Now the more I think about this Iris FR, the more I see that what I was lacking, is masculine dominance. I think I'm the cat playing with the mouse, but she walked me in the park. She's used to much stronger men than that. Yes of course she enjoys me kissing her boobs. Then she got me pleasuring her without even giving me a handjob. She knew she was completely in charge, and not me. That cost me points with her.

Here I had a calibration problem. I'm used to softer women, and I used my usual game, where in fact I should have sensed a different caliber of woman and adapted in consequence. I was focusing on being sexy and smooth, but I should have been much more masculine and dominant. I can probably be stronger. But I didn't spot the issue in time.

I don't expect a follow up with her, but if there's anything I'll post an update. It's anyway a good learning.

Cheers,
Seppuku
 

Sophisticated Gent

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Glad the link helped. Maybe she was a stronger woman that you are used to because she is from Kenyan. I imagine that middle eastern women are more passive.

Keep up the good work. You kick butt.

BDSC
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

HellAtlantic

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Seppuku said:
Hey Big Daddy,

Thanks man, interesting link indeed. More aggressive, more persistent.

Now the more I think about this Iris FR, the more I see that what I was lacking, is masculine dominance. I think I'm the cat playing with the mouse, but she walked me in the park. She's used to much stronger men than that. Yes of course she enjoys me kissing her boobs. Then she got me pleasuring her without even giving me a handjob. She knew she was completely in charge, and not me. That cost me points with her.

Here I had a calibration problem. I'm used to softer women, and I used my usual game, where in fact I should have sensed a different caliber of woman and adapted in consequence. I was focusing on being sexy and smooth, but I should have been much more masculine and dominant. I can probably be stronger. But I didn't spot the issue in time.

I don't expect a follow up with her, but if there's anything I'll post an update. It's anyway a good learning.

Cheers,
Seppuku

What is the way you would act more masculine/dominant?
 

Seppuku

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Hey HellAtlantic,

I would say, first, by quickly building compliance and giving her firm orders. Then, telling her no. Finally not getting involved in her fingering session for free, like trading for a blowjob.

That's my take. Well guys what do you think?
 
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