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I see a lot of fucking guys nowadays who neglect being Nt(Neurotipical)
Which basically means acting acting similar to others in ur Social group and match their behavior unconsciously. Like when u unconsciously act like others do that might provide them with feeling of trust and safety towards ur persona.
So that's why a lot of ppl fail when they try to date, they begin to act unnatural which makes them seem weird as if their social interactions are very conscious, lines prepared which is not seem as natural by other individuals in your group and makes them think that ur a fuckin weirdo.
That what I fixed first, I stopped behaving too conscious preparing any "lines", trying to dive in topics. No ppl don't like that at all, they like when u act natural. When I changed that aspect of my behavior (being to conscious) and started acting more on instinct/naturally. My socializing skills became a lot better , I even found a gf without any means to do so(Also made every interaction a lot more easier even if it's a stranger , made me enjoy conversations and
Feel better overral)
Which basically means acting acting similar to others in ur Social group and match their behavior unconsciously. Like when u unconsciously act like others do that might provide them with feeling of trust and safety towards ur persona.
So that's why a lot of ppl fail when they try to date, they begin to act unnatural which makes them seem weird as if their social interactions are very conscious, lines prepared which is not seem as natural by other individuals in your group and makes them think that ur a fuckin weirdo.
That what I fixed first, I stopped behaving too conscious preparing any "lines", trying to dive in topics. No ppl don't like that at all, they like when u act natural. When I changed that aspect of my behavior (being to conscious) and started acting more on instinct/naturally. My socializing skills became a lot better , I even found a gf without any means to do so(Also made every interaction a lot more easier even if it's a stranger , made me enjoy conversations and
Feel better overral)
