Is it a good idea for girls you had threesome with to connect with each other?

[PaulieFlyn10]

So the title is pretty self explanatory. Last month I had a threesome with 2 girls I introduced to each other.

They clicked pretty well which made threesome easier. Plus they both found each other attractive.

Now, they both want each other's numbers. They've both asked me.

So I'm wondering if it's a good idea. My biggest concern is that one of them is super jealous. And she'd probably want to ruin things with the other girl

I just changed the topic when they asked. But I'd like to get your suggestions to see if it's a good idea

 

[topcat]

So the title is pretty self explanatory. Last month I had a threesome with 2 girls I introduced to each other.

They clicked pretty well which made threesome easier. Plus they both found each other attractive.

Now, they both want each other's numbers. They've both asked me.

So I'm wondering if it's a good idea. My biggest concern is that one of them is super jealous. And she'd probably want to ruin things with the other girl

I just changed the topic when they asked. But I'd like to get your suggestions to see if it's a good idea

Try it and see

what’s the worst that could happen?

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

Try it and see

what’s the worst that could happen?

Sure thanks, I'll give it a go.

Another huge concern of mine is that the super jealous one is a right-on-the-money Cluster B girl.


Ticks all the boxes perfectly. And after reading that somewhat scary and accurate Drexel Scott article on Cluster B, I don't want to bring her too close into my life

 

[Dreamer]

Nice work here Paulie.

They clicked pretty well which made threesome easier. Plus they both found each other attractive.

Two important variables if you want recurring threesomes with them, so glad those boxes are ticked.

My biggest concern is that one of them is super jealous. And she'd probably want to ruin things with the other girl

This usually develops a bit more down the line, but if what you described about one of them is true (Cluster B) then I suspect it could happen earlier. Not entirely sure though.

Try it and see

what’s the worst that could happen?

Sure thanks, I'll give it a go.

I was wondering how about we err on the side of caution and wait a bit for more responses from people who've been in this situation countless times to figure out what the best play here is, instead of jumping the gun and possibly derailing things? Recurrent threesomes with the same duo isn't exactly easy pickings b/c you have multiple dynamics going on. You need to divide your attention relatively equally and (if it's in the early stages) you need to make sure no specific girl feels like she's playing ""second fiddle", unless of course one girl is your main girl / queen bee etc. In those situs she's kind of like Santa's little helper since that's more or less her role. I don't clearly recall what the std play is or used to be in these cases. I do recall reading something (I think it was on here recently?) of a case where someone created a Whatsapp group with both girls and communicated with both on there after the threesome to manage things. However, in that case he girls would be able to contact each other (since the contact info of all participants is available to see), so it's kind of like everyone can contact each other publically in the group and privately.

Perhaps Skills @Skills or Alek @Teevster can chime in with a better response?

-Dreamer

 

[Chase]

Do want more threesomes with them?

If so, have another threesome with them both. Then if they really want each others' numbers, they can trade them then.

They both like each other, and right now another threesome with you is the only way they can connect again

The safest play is to have the second threesome, convert them to the situation of "we regularly have threesomes together" rather than risking "that was just a one-off thing, and now the other girl and me are besties and it would just be weird having a threesome with Paulie now!"

Giving them each others' contacts before it's converted to a regular thing just introduces a bunch of variables you can't control.

If you want more threesomes, better to play it safe and keep yourself the conduit for them to connect with each other again.

If you don't want more threesomes with them... also probably better not to give their contact info, if one of the girls is Cluster B.

Again, is going to throw a whole bunch more variables into your relationships here, likely not of any benefit to you.

You can always offer them each others' contacts when you break up... "Oh hey remember blah blah girl? She wanted your number but I forgot to give it to her. Want me to just give you hers now?" Etc.

Chase

 

[Skills]

So the title is pretty self explanatory. Last month I had a threesome with 2 girls I introduced to each other.

They clicked pretty well which made threesome easier. Plus they both found each other attractive.

Now, they both want each other's numbers. They've both asked me.

So I'm wondering if it's a good idea. My biggest concern is that one of them is super jealous. And she'd probably want to ruin things with the other girl

I just changed the topic when they asked. But I'd like to get your suggestions to see if it's a good idea

Chase gave you the right answer... A wild card, would be they like each other so much and you become a casualty.... This is my take tbh... Never I had a 3 some were this situation happen... A proper 3 some one of the girl is the equivalent of a vibrator just a tool... You are complicating things, no your faul, bad luck or one trying to sabotage.. But now if you reject the request, it could come across as you being controlling and jealous which is no good either... You are in a fucked up situation in my opinion, best to say I don't feel comfortable why don't we all hang out again and then you guys can exchange directly and bang again... But before that maybe avoid it and put a boundary saying is not that I don't want you 2 to be friends and hang out but I feel it that happens may affect what we have on form of drama, and maybe put some boundaries and rules... But sometimes with women when you forbid something they want it more...