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Is it good to instant sex after the approach?

Just a Man

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Yes, it happens. For me, it was mostly student situations. Whether it's good or not basically depends: did you both enjoy it? Does she turn out to be a psycho? Is it all just no-strings fun?
 

KJ Francis

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It's definitely "good" lol, but "good practice"? Probably not.

It is likely fairly rare, but possible.


If you want to see examples of quick seductions, check out reports from user James D. Notice he still takes the girl on a little instant date, even for the same day lays.

It typically takes some comfort building before she's ready, even if she's really attracted from the start.

Please report back if you go field test though. I'd recommend staying away from directly propositioning her verbally. Look up "body rocking" and "plausible deniability", and try to communicate a lot non verbally.

Some say physical escalation is the most attractive thing you can do, so give it a shot and see what happens, then adjust!
 

gameboy

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I night game it can go really really fast if she's into you. Of course you can take a girl home the same night (or go to hers). Why wouldn't you if she's down?
 

Will_V

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How common is this? Does it happen or rare corcumstance?

It depends on the situation. Fastest lay I ever had was about half an hour from meet to bed, an asian girl I met walking around in the evening by the river where my boat was moored, I invited her straight over. I'm pretty sure I was her rebound guy there, she was definitely a bit emotional and looking for intimacy. Wettest girl I ever had, too. She couldn't stop grinning after, but wouldn't return my messages the next day - probably went back for another go with whatever dude she was with.

Another one took about an hour, same location.

Seems to me the number one reason for fast sex is when she's feeling emotional and needy and just wants to feel sexy and desired, and lose herself in the pleasure with an anonymous guy. Easy come, easy go.
 
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