is it ok to never text first to the girl you just started seeing?

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

this one https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...te-her-to-out-of-town-house-on-the-3rd.23276/

basically the title.
she texted me good morning and I responded back with love, but I
didn't text good night,
didn't text when I stumbled upon a picture of a cute kitten and
didn't text with news about something we talked about.

my idea is to move relationships further slowly and gradually

she likes me very much and I plan on fucking two times a week, but never writing first for a while.
in your experience, is that something that can cool her off or
is that something she won't even bring up in the first 2 month?

 

[Troy]

@thats_a_penis_disgustang

First off, the name you chose for your girls chase profile is a bit shocking and a turnoff to be honest. Don't be offended bro! There are a lot more names, more in line with your values and goals I am sure you can switch to.

With that said, to answer your question, when starting a relationship, it is best to set the precedence of how you want it to look like for the next 3 months, 1 year, 2 years, e.t.c. So first figure out really what you want with this girl you are seeing. Do you want her as a girlfriend? A FWB? e.t.c.

Here are some articles to help you figure this out

Operant Conditioning in Your Romantic Relationships

Something I've noticed that a number of individuals untrained in relationship management theory tend to engage in is arbitrary (that is, seemingly random) punishment and reward inside of relationships. These sort of variable reward and punishment structures inside relationships generally lead to...

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Dating and Relationship Precedent: Why It’s So Very Important

Poorly-set precedent: it's the scourge of relationships across the face of mankind. Every day, the whole of the male sex collectively writhes in agony at its own terribly-set precedent coming back to haunt it - and bit it right in the ass.

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Reversing Poor Past Precedent with Girls You Like

Alex writes in with a question about a follow-up article to the one on precedent: “Dating and Relationship Precedent: Why It’s So Very Important.” Here's his email: “Hi Chase and friends at girlschase.com Your articles are amazing! I found Chase's article on precedent to be thought-provoking...

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I hope that helps, all the best

 

[Chase]

@thats_a_penis_disgustang,

I had a girlfriend I never texted first.

She was just super aggressive about texting. I'd have happily texted her first but I never needed to.

I took her phone number, and before I could send her an icebreaker text, she ice broke me, asking me when to meet.

After we shagged, before I could text her to come over, she would always text me asking to come over.

After a couple months she got upset and asked why I never texted her first.

I told her, "There's no reason for me to, you always text me before I can text you!"

I don't know that I'd deliberately not text a girl because I was playing some kind of game or slow-gaming it or something.

But if she is always texting you, more than you need her to, and she is always trying to arrange meets and whatnot, there is not really any reason for you to text first.

Again, wouldn't do it as some kind of conscious game though. But if no need for you to text her, it's fine.

Do be prepared to explain why you never text her first when she asks, however.

Chase

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

I don't know that I'd deliberately not text a girl because I was playing some kind of game or slow-gaming it or something.

this is the most important thing I wanted to hear, and it came from the man himself. Thank you