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Is it possible that i only attract girl of my race ?

Lex

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Ok ive been following GC for quit a while now and it helped me so much...ive change my style and everything ive become more and more sexy but...i feel like i attract mostly girls of my race(black)I know from experiences than black girls are way more open to talk about the attraction they feel for a man and that white girl are way more shy but my question is : Is it possible that I only attract girl of my race and that white girl dont find me attractive? OR attraction is a neutral thing ? what ever the race of a girl if im attractive to one race ill be as attractive to an other ? i Know that it is possible to be attractive to with girls even if your black ( ive slept with 2 )but i feel that it is much harder to attract the regular white girls who only have been with white guy(maybe it is a limiting belief...IDK)

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Didn't think I'd live to see the day a black talks about struggling with girls of other races. The evidence is all out there, many black men go interracial. Something I have witnessed about black guys is that compared to other minority groups, black guys have a very polarizing effect. The white girls I have known who love black guys make it very obvious that they are into black men compared to white girls that are open to dating other races such as asians and latinos. IMO, when it comes to race, Black guys have a very powerful niche to appeal to while other minority groups have a much larger range.

You see, the white girls that have a thing for black guys are usually more into the hood and swagged out type of black guy, that kind of guy might do excellent with that subset of white girls. What I have seen from successful black guys who want to increase their range is that they adapt their style to be more like Denzel Washington in the sense that they are black and classy. I have seen these kinds of black guys with attractive white girls and even attractive non-black girls you would never suspect of dating a black man. One guy I know is a tall black guy who dresses very hipster like and his girlfriend is this gorgeous Persian girl.
 

Lex

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So if i understand I should change my style for a more dress-like style ? since the beginning of 2014 i had a faded (haircut)
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But now i want to have a haircut a little bit more edgier like this(fauxhawk)
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what do u think ?

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Black and latino guys need to avoid looking edgy, looking edgy benefits asians and indians but not black and latino guys. What black and latino guys need to do is try to actually look less edgy, try to be like Donald Glover and follow his hipster style.
 

Lex

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So if i understand I should change my style for a more dress-like style ? since the beginning of 2014 i had a faded (haircut)
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But now i want to have a haircut a little bit more edgier like this(fauxhawk)
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what do u think ?

LexXx
 

Lex

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I dont really like the hipster style cause it really doesnt fit me well. Im more of a Badboy/laid back guy/strong-silent type/introvert and i feel that the hipster is more for outgoing people/social butterfly...you say that black man and latino shouldnt look edgy but when i look at my role model (Idris elba) he's really edgy in my opinion

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i have the same facial hair that he has in the photo were he wear a white hat

what do you think ?

Im really sorry for the double post...

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Elba is famous and rules do not apply to celebs as much. If you look edgy as a black guy, you are limiting yourself a lot because black and latino guys are actually hurt by looking edgy. Go for more of a Donald Glover kind of style.
 
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Lex

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Thx Casanova for your comment really helped me.

For the fauxhawk however you were talking about the facial shape that doesnt go well with that hairstyle.I have a oval shape head I have read alot in the internet that oval shape head can pull off any type of facial hair and hairstyle...but IDK i scared that it make my head too long.Ive ask several of my female friends and they all said it would be great but they are all black except for one cute red head irish friend ( i dont have that many white female friends...).In your opinion should i try it ?

Honestly I really want to try so ill probably give it a try anyway and let u know:)

As always

Lex
 
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