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Okay, right off the bat I am going to say that my personal answer is no.
Yes, of course we have guys like Alek Rolstad who just kills it with those low ratios but I am not exactly on his level. I have found that moving faster actually makes that fact much more clearer than when I was moving slower.
These days, I really like to push for a date or a meet up, especially with those phone numbers. I thought I was moving too fast and pushing girls away with my new method. Of course, I think my texting game can be brushed up but I think that the numbers game is also a very real thing.
I got two new numbers and started texting them last week. I was a bit forward but not too forward. It was just me making a bit of small talk and then suggesting that we meet up to get to know each other better. The first one was skittish at the idea of meeting up but she always acted flirty in person. After a few days I found that she blocked me. I asked her out twice on two seperate weeks.
The other one just went radio-silent. I feel like I made a blunder with the texting. It's just a feeling but I can't quite put my finger on what it was. I still think it's better than the trouble I was having in 2022.
You see, in 2022 I was having trouble converting girls from friends to sexual options. I would chat with them for a long period of time and then when I revealed my intentions or simply asked them out (sometimes even as just friends) then they would avoid that or even ignore it and try to bring other topics into the mix.
That sucked. I was putting in weeks for girls who felt weird when I just wanted to see them face to face. One girl told me that she had just took her ex back (I didn't keep up with their relationship much) and that if I had spoken sooner, maybe the outcome would have been different.
Long story short, she tried to keep me in her back pocket. She told me that we should just stick to being friends and practically begged me not to block her. I didn't care much. And also, she was not even that cute. A 7.5 if I have to follow my own criteria for girls.
So, my instincts are telling me that my numbers are just WAY too low. Cold-approach still feels too daunting for me and I can feel burnout coming on. I want to start night gaming soon. ASAP actually. Just gotta get my financial affairs sorted.
But social circle and night game seems to be a much easier hill to climb than day game. I have been at a night venue before and it is not half as terrifying. I get to use my favorite tactics and capitalize on my natural indirect game that seems to be a carbon copy of the game that Alek runs.
The entire article he wrote on indirect game just resonated with me and I simply nodded my head at all the points he made. I was already doing it but I was almost never at the venues or even out at night.
So, this is not actually a question now that I see what I wrote. This is just to make sure I am actually on the right track and that my intuition is still healthy after all the crap it has been fed for the last 3 years or so.
Pierre.
Yes, of course we have guys like Alek Rolstad who just kills it with those low ratios but I am not exactly on his level. I have found that moving faster actually makes that fact much more clearer than when I was moving slower.
These days, I really like to push for a date or a meet up, especially with those phone numbers. I thought I was moving too fast and pushing girls away with my new method. Of course, I think my texting game can be brushed up but I think that the numbers game is also a very real thing.
I got two new numbers and started texting them last week. I was a bit forward but not too forward. It was just me making a bit of small talk and then suggesting that we meet up to get to know each other better. The first one was skittish at the idea of meeting up but she always acted flirty in person. After a few days I found that she blocked me. I asked her out twice on two seperate weeks.
The other one just went radio-silent. I feel like I made a blunder with the texting. It's just a feeling but I can't quite put my finger on what it was. I still think it's better than the trouble I was having in 2022.
You see, in 2022 I was having trouble converting girls from friends to sexual options. I would chat with them for a long period of time and then when I revealed my intentions or simply asked them out (sometimes even as just friends) then they would avoid that or even ignore it and try to bring other topics into the mix.
That sucked. I was putting in weeks for girls who felt weird when I just wanted to see them face to face. One girl told me that she had just took her ex back (I didn't keep up with their relationship much) and that if I had spoken sooner, maybe the outcome would have been different.
Long story short, she tried to keep me in her back pocket. She told me that we should just stick to being friends and practically begged me not to block her. I didn't care much. And also, she was not even that cute. A 7.5 if I have to follow my own criteria for girls.
So, my instincts are telling me that my numbers are just WAY too low. Cold-approach still feels too daunting for me and I can feel burnout coming on. I want to start night gaming soon. ASAP actually. Just gotta get my financial affairs sorted.
But social circle and night game seems to be a much easier hill to climb than day game. I have been at a night venue before and it is not half as terrifying. I get to use my favorite tactics and capitalize on my natural indirect game that seems to be a carbon copy of the game that Alek runs.
The entire article he wrote on indirect game just resonated with me and I simply nodded my head at all the points he made. I was already doing it but I was almost never at the venues or even out at night.
So, this is not actually a question now that I see what I wrote. This is just to make sure I am actually on the right track and that my intuition is still healthy after all the crap it has been fed for the last 3 years or so.
Pierre.
