Is it watching an ordinary stimulating video the pornography?

[Whiteheart]

Dear people, I need your opinion. I beat my porn addiction 2 years ago. It took me 6 months to completely stop watching.

A female friend posted a 3-4 second video on social media that repeats itself in which she laughs and sways back and forth behind a table in a bar, which lasts a total of 10 seconds. It gave me the impression that someone was fucking her from behind, especially since the expression on her face gave off pleasure.

It's about the fact that when I saw the video clip it turned me on, I literally started to ejaculate without even touching the penis, and when I couldn't take it anymore and started to masturbate, it exploded.

The mitigating circumstance is that I still partially used my imagination when watching and masturbating, i.e. he imagined that he was acting in a pornographic film - we know that using your brain instead of voyeuring is what makes the difference between healthy and unhealthy masturbation.

I'm worried about what effects this will have on my brain, have I (accidentally) watched porn again even though I definitely stopped? Could this be reflected in the appearance of my problems with spontaneous erection that I had when I was addicted to porn? Can I have some side effects due to this event?

Best,
W

 

[Beck Bass]

If you were addicted to porn, it's kinda normal to imagine that type of thing in such a situation. It's not necessarily bad, it can even help you in being more sexual with girls (assuming you can imagine sexual acts with girls, not only pixels on your screen).

About your porn addiction comeback fear, you have to remember why you quit porn. If seeing such videos are doing similar bad things to you as porn, you should totally quit it. That said, I myself watched porn for quite a while, occasionally, and never had that much of a problem (it was a means to an end, for me, so I it was more like I used porn rather than it using me). The more you go without porn though, and the less crazy graphic imagining stuff you'll experience, and the more turned on by natural contact with women you'll be (assuming you're having pleasurable experiences with women).

Good luck (and maybe quit social media a bit, it can be an annoying time sink, regardless of "porny stuff")

 

[ingridguerci94]

Dear people, I need your opinion. I beat my porn addiction 2 years ago. It took me 6 months to completely stop watching.

A female friend posted a 3-4 second video on social media that repeats itself in which she laughs and sways back and forth behind a table in a bar, which lasts a total of 10 seconds. It gave me the impression that someone was fucking her from behind, especially since the expression on her face gave off pleasure.

It's about the fact that when I saw the video clip it turned me on, I literally started to ejaculate without even touching the penis, and when I couldn't take it anymore and started to masturbate, it exploded.

The mitigating circumstance is that I still partially used my imagination when watching and masturbating, i.e. he imagined that he was acting in a pornographic film - we know that using your brain instead of voyeuring is what makes the difference between healthy and unhealthy masturbation.

I'm worried about what effects this will have on my brain, have I (accidentally) watched porn again even though I definitely stopped? Could this be reflected in the appearance of my problems with spontaneous erection that I had when I was addicted to porn? Can I have some side effects due to this event?

Best,
W

I understand that you are concerned about your recent experience and its potential impact on your past addiction to porn. It's important to acknowledge the progress you've made in overcoming your addiction, and it's commendable that you're seeking guidance on this matter.

It's natural to be worried about the effects of such an experience on your mental well-being and previous struggles with porn addiction. However, it's essential to remember that everyone's journey to recovery is unique, and setbacks or challenging moments can occur along the way.