Hi,
So I started gaming again after almost two years of abstinence (been in a relationship) and I need a little help right now. I will shorten this so it doesn't get too long.
I have this work colleague, nice girl. I gave her the eye contact that I'm interested in her. After a few days she adds me on the company internal chat list. Somehow she found me. I started chatting her a little bit then take a walk in the campus. I could feel that natural attraction between us and she was giving me all the IOIs. She never said a word when I touched her or get her by the neck. Got on a date in the same day, later on, after leaving work.
Got to the meeting point, said Hi, got her by the neck and kissed her. No comments. Everything worked great during the date, touching, kissing etc but I might have overqualified her talking about her ass and some sex jokes. She did not mind those but after the meeting I kind of had the feeling that it was too much.
After two days I asked her if she has the time to meet again. She said she is spending time with her friends, but she could meet me for an hour or so before she leaves. I was OK with that since I was doing daygame and it was just easy to meet her.
The next day (today) I was keep thinking if I should contact her, and eventually I did it. We spoke on the phone and I've made the conversation go until I hit the point to get her to come to my place tonight (You should come see a movie, I have pop-corn). She said no because she was sleeping at her friends (she was actually in the car with one of them, I could hear her) but she could meet me for a half an hour.
She calls, I don't respond. After about 10-15 min I call back and she said she wants to come and meet me, to kiss me and see me (ohhh how nice
). I said that 15 min it's not acceptable for me, but I'll do it to see how is going. She comes to my place and everything flows naturally, kissing, touching but we were interrupted by a nabor who came to my door because he damaged my car in the parking lot (damn...). So she leaves to meet her girls.
I can feel she likes me, I can see she likes me, but I also feel that something is not quite as it needs to be.
What do you think? Steps to recover?
Thanks,
So I started gaming again after almost two years of abstinence (been in a relationship) and I need a little help right now. I will shorten this so it doesn't get too long.
I have this work colleague, nice girl. I gave her the eye contact that I'm interested in her. After a few days she adds me on the company internal chat list. Somehow she found me. I started chatting her a little bit then take a walk in the campus. I could feel that natural attraction between us and she was giving me all the IOIs. She never said a word when I touched her or get her by the neck. Got on a date in the same day, later on, after leaving work.
Got to the meeting point, said Hi, got her by the neck and kissed her. No comments. Everything worked great during the date, touching, kissing etc but I might have overqualified her talking about her ass and some sex jokes. She did not mind those but after the meeting I kind of had the feeling that it was too much.
After two days I asked her if she has the time to meet again. She said she is spending time with her friends, but she could meet me for an hour or so before she leaves. I was OK with that since I was doing daygame and it was just easy to meet her.
The next day (today) I was keep thinking if I should contact her, and eventually I did it. We spoke on the phone and I've made the conversation go until I hit the point to get her to come to my place tonight (You should come see a movie, I have pop-corn). She said no because she was sleeping at her friends (she was actually in the car with one of them, I could hear her) but she could meet me for a half an hour.
She calls, I don't respond. After about 10-15 min I call back and she said she wants to come and meet me, to kiss me and see me (ohhh how nice
). I said that 15 min it's not acceptable for me, but I'll do it to see how is going. She comes to my place and everything flows naturally, kissing, touching but we were interrupted by a nabor who came to my door because he damaged my car in the parking lot (damn...). So she leaves to meet her girls.I can feel she likes me, I can see she likes me, but I also feel that something is not quite as it needs to be.
What do you think? Steps to recover?
Thanks,
