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Is she toying with me?

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Anonymous

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Hi!

I met with this girl twice, first time we where on a cofee date on a sunday afternoon, and it went great, but she where not in to too much tuching.

Never the less she wrote to me that she had a great time, and we met up later that week for a beer, and had a great time talking about great subjects, and she opened up on sex topics and we kissed and had a great time (another guest on the bar flashed her breast to me right behind the girl I was dating, that was really fun).

Unfortunately I was really tired and had to get up early, and I did not make a move on taking her home (wich I normally do at first/second date or never).

A few days later on saturday she writes me at 11pm "Hi!!!" and I reply "Goodevening Mathilde :)", and then nothing happens until 3:00am (when I was asleep) where she writes "Are you having a great evening?".

Now I feel like she is toying with me, she is only writing short answers, not cold, but never asks me anything.

Of couse I would like to close the deal, but if she is toying with me I would rather find another girl to spend time on...

I dont know what to do if we go on a third date, and she is in a non-sexual mood then.

I have tried anchors, reminding her of good times and stuff.

All the best to you out there :)
 
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Space Monkey
space monkey
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Bro, she messages you first with a "HII!!" which is great, you reply with a dead-end message (seems like your toying with her), she then messages you again with an convo-opener, she's waiting for you to take the hint and chat a bit and setup another date.
Get out of your own head.
 
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