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Is there a way to recover from autorejection?

Winston

Space Monkey
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The more I dig into the VAC model, the more I understand I have made a lot of attainability mistakes by being too aloof with girls. It also helps me to explain why things did not work out with girls who, I am pretty sure, were interested at some point.

So I can now think of several girls that, very probably, went into autorejection with me.

Is there a way to recover with a girl once she is in autorejection?

I guess the answer is different if we are talking about social circle or cold approach. But let's assume theoretically that several weeks, or even months, has passed after she went into autorejection, and there is a way to see the girl again (or at least, to call her/text her).

Is there any way to turn things around with her, or it is game over forever?
 

Beck Bass

Cro-Magnon Man
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I guess after all that time, you get a bit of reset (even if she straight up rejected you months ago, now you could be a different man, and she could be way hornier or looking more for a man like you).
So don't worry about it too much, just play it cool and seducer her as usual.

It also helps if she somehow feels even more attracted to you than last time, like you show more value and even if she's still kinda autorejecting, she ends up evaluating you as "worth it", since you seem even cooler than last time. I think the best way to do this is show some social skill with other people around her, then go in for the kill when she gives you some AIs (preselection can help, but be very careful with jealousy plots backfiring, specially with girls that autorejected you before).
 
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PureGold

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The more I dig into the VAC model, the more I understand I have made a lot of attainability mistakes by being too aloof with girls. It also helps me to explain why things did not work out with girls who, I am pretty sure, were interested at some point.

So I can now think of several girls that, very probably, went into autorejection with me.

Is there a way to recover with a girl once she is in autorejection?

I guess the answer is different if we are talking about social circle or cold approach. But let's assume theoretically that several weeks, or even months, has passed after she went into autorejection, and there is a way to see the girl again (or at least, to call her/text her).

Is there any way to turn things around with her, or it is game over forever?
No, there is no way, period
With that question you are coming from oniti mentality
 
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