Is there a way to spot attentions seekers / teasers without making moves?

[Prehistoric]

It's not the rejection here that I want to avoid. I am beginning to get past that.

What I really don't like is giving this category of women the satisfaction I made a move on them, because that's all they look for. It's the validation that comes from knowing "that guy desired and wanted me". It fills their ego and thirst for power.

I somehow enjoy not giving them this kind of satisfaction.

So, how can you tell real signals of interest from attempts to gain your attention by teasing / faking interest.

It's happened to me at least 3 times in the last 2 months or so to come across such women and I just feel like a fool after I make a move and I see that's the only thing they wanted.

Of course I don't want to risk losing girls who are genuinely interested.

 

[Drck]

She shows her real interest in her actions. Simply ask her out, and she'll either go or not. If she is just seeking an attention she will not go. If she is really interested, she will.

But this might get little bit complicated. For example, she may be really shy and inexperienced, yet really intersted in you. So she might be attention seeking and teasing/flirting, but for reason that she is raising her self-esteem and confidence. If she sees that you are pushing too fast and too hard for date, she will fall into autorejection fast. On the other hand, if you don't push at all her attraction will expire, and she will lose the interest she had in you... In cases like this, requesting small complience is good - if she is interested she will do stuff for you, and eventually she will agree to go for dates. If she is not interested she will not do anything for you, no matter how small the request is...

So if you have good Abundance Mentality, are experienced and have lots of girls in your pool, it is easy to spot such girl. You'll just ask her out, and if she doesn't go you'll move on. If you don't have the above, you might want to be moving slowly anyway, just to get the experience and overcome own shyness. Even if you don't end up in bed with her, the interaction itself is always great experience...