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Is this a good idea?

Alexis

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Okay so i just had a date with this girl, it went well.and well see i told her that i am having beach house party for two nights, with a couple of guys friends and thier inviting their own girls aswell. And she said she wants to go. Is it a good idea if i invite her to go with me or is that going to get me slotted in the friendzone territory? She can only stay one night. I was thinking if i do invite her i can get itimidate with her that night since i have my own room in the beach house and i can take her to bed and i can sleep with her that night. I just met this girl. I kinda want a relationship with her.

I read in one of chase articles and he said this:
"It’s far better to avoid doing too many fun things with women before you’ve gotten intimate with them; otherwise, they may come to value you too highly for the fun you provide to risk getting intimate with you and potentially losing access to the fun if things don’t work out."

I want to know if this is a good plan if im trying to make her something other than my "friend"

Let me know your thoughts thanks!
 
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TylerDurden

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It seems a good plan if you have that room and can get alone pretty easily, and before either gets wasted.
You probably might want to be with her a lot instead of group things, like if you where in a dance club.
Then after some drinks, some fun, etc, invite her to a tour of the house, and end it in the bedroom and well you take it from there.
 
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