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Is this chick playing me?

stickyfingers

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So I met this girl while riding a motorcycle (she rides too and she came up to me while me with my friend were resting from traveling). I suggested to her to come to festival which will be happening next day. She asked for my facebook so that I could give her details when to meet. Next day, me with my friends and this girl rode to that local festival. She was showing some signs of attraction like brushing my hair to remove a "bug". Also she gets in to my personal space by standing and facing me directly 15 inches away, also looking in to my eyes, brushing slowly her hair with fingers. Next week I asked what is she doing on weekend, she told she is bussy. Later I asked her again to do some adventure, but she ignored that and sticked to another topic. So I thought to myself, she is not interested in me, and I went almost silent (asking whats up few times, thats all).
FEW weeks later, she asks what am I doing now, do I want to come to ride with her. So I agreed and we had kinda good time, laughed, at one point she was in my personal space again, litterally 10 inches in front of my face, looking directly, I commented and touched her fingers, said they are pretty cold, she touched back mine and said the same. OK, so next day I ask her to go out for a swim in beautiful lake, and she ignores that, sticking to first part of my message which is unrelated to the second part which was invitation... Also, before asking to ride with me, she shared in her facebook one of those stupid test results with the title "who will love her forever" and there was some dude with a bike.

Few important things:
When someone called her, she told that person on the phone that she is with me, said my name, even if we met only 4 times.
She does not give me any compliments.
She is 20 years old.
 

Richard

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Can't be too sure - not enough details to get a full grasp of things.

She invested a bit, met up with you, showed signs of attraction but also denies you when you ask to hang out so I can't be too sure. I'd cut back on texting or reaching out to her at all, let her reach out to you and if you're feeling up for it then see her and try to push things forward physically.

-Richard
 

stickyfingers

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Wow, thank you for all the responses. To Richard:
More info: that moment when she asked to meet up, she was giving a ride on bike to some dude since it was bachelor party, so when I arrived, I was surprised to find her in the middle of like 6~ guys, they were cheering on the bachelor. When I arrived, she seemed happy to see me, we fist bumped, also we took photo together with the bachelor, and after I got in to funny discussion with the guy, she took my hand and gently dragged me away from amusing drunk bachelor dude. I am very confused that she shows these signs to me, but does not want to hang out when I ask her... What information can I provide that could help you out figuring the problem, Richard?

To "fuck this":
I am afraid to misread the signals, since she is quite flirty and very friendly with other dudes too, not in a way like with me though (i think).
If she had accepted my offers to hang out and shit, then I would be quite sure and escalate.
 

stickyfingers

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Recently she asked if I am willing to go to another festival with her and group of other bikers. I was kinda bussy so I said that I can not go this day.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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