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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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No time to write out a full field report, it will come up soon. However, for the moment I can just summarise what's up:

•I flirted with a girl in front of her workmates (she caused that).
•She didn't give me her number and instead told me to follow her on instagram.
•I told her I didn't have instagram, but then I proceeded to download it to hopefully extend my interaction with her
•I DMed her "hey its ash, the guy who made your day on Tuesday :)" but got no reply.
•Next day she then set up a selfie and captioned "sometimes I feel like nobody's listening".

So now I want to post a comment on her pic saying "its because you ignore our DMs ;)"

Is that comment too harsh to be on a public comment? And if I wait a while (because its blatant that she ignored my DM because she "liked" a comment of her picture, which proves she's active on her instagram) will she ever get back to me?

I'd be okay with posting up my comment for fun if I'm in a lose-lose situation but I don't want to hurt her.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Ash said:
No time to write out a full field report, it will come up soon. However, for the moment I can just summarise what's up:

•I flirted with a girl in front of her workmates (she caused that).
•She didn't give me her number and instead told me to follow her on instagram.
•I told her I didn't have instagram, but then I proceeded to download it to hopefully extend my interaction with her
•I DMed her "hey its ash, the guy who made your day on Tuesday :)" but got no reply.
•Next day she then set up a selfie and captioned "sometimes I feel like nobody's listening".

So now I want to post a comment on her pic saying "its because you ignore our DMs ;)"

Is that comment too harsh to be on a public comment? And if I wait a while (because its blatant that she ignored my DM because she "liked" a comment of her picture, which proves she's active on her instagram) will she ever get back to me?

I'd be okay with posting up my comment for fun if I'm in a lose-lose situation but I don't want to hurt her.


Harsh or not, I dont see why you should do such thing.

Does a strong man with abundance have to stalk a girl on insta and be passive agrassive in the the comments of her selfie?

Does he care about a silly little cute girls who doesnt even know what she wants?

Does he care what she says on instagramm or what she does in real life?

I really dont see any reason for such action
 

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You showed lots of weakness... for example:

"She didn't give me her number and instead told me to follow her on instagram"

... then you went, downloaded the apps and contacted her again... Basically she told you what to do and you did it, you followed her command...

Girls like leaders, not followers. Don't contact her anymore, don't post any messages, that's only another sign of weakness (chasing)... you've already lost, she doesn't care about you at all... Welcome to The Game :)
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Thanks guys. Its weird how weakness can just sneak up on you like that.
 
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