IS this YOu?, Achieving Self Worth, You worth it.

[trashKENNUT]

I think one of the most common blind spots of successful people against the ultra(number 1) successful people is the expression of energy. What do i mean by this?

People who tend to talk trash, those who definitively put others as different rather than making peace with other people. Have you notice? People who drove BMW, Mercedes "definitively" put themselves and telling others that they doing things to change the world, while those driving Rolls Royce, living in the Spelling Manor "just do it".

It's not that you will belittle others if you drive a Mercedes. IT comes down to Explicit Value vs Implicit Value. So which one do you do?

I suggest looking at you. What do i mean by that? Valuing yourself. Finding your inner sense of joy, If i drive a Mercedes, why do i drive it? It is because i feel good. Why do i wanna start a company? Because i find joy in it, or i value money and if possible the product help others as well.

I used to have friends, they drive sport cars and they practically have a lot of money, but they just feel inferior when i am around. It is this sense of lacking in your own belief that you want to have this items, that you have it because of others will. I believe We all have our own value.

Make peace. Make a truce. If you want to forgive your blindspot, then forgive. If you do not, it doesn't matter, make peace, today. You tend to generally move forward better in your life

Zac

 

[Richard]

Honestly Zac, I hope alot of newer members find their way to this article because I completely agree with you. In my approach to therapy, I believe that everyone has an innate self worth, and that people strive to reach their fullest potential, and I love helping people to find their own worth.
Great post man, I hope many read this.
- Richard

 

[trashKENNUT]

Honestly Zac, I hope alot of newer members find their way to this article because I completely agree with you. In my approach to therapy, I believe that everyone has an innate self worth, and that people strive to reach their fullest potential, and I love helping people to find their own worth.
Great post man, I hope many read this.

Thank you for your kind words, Zphix. Well i might come across as using emotional rush in this post. I do a lot of this thing where i state "i am different" or that "i am not like you" in my teens. It's what they called competitive qualifying. It helps you to motivate yourself to be successful, but there's a certain flaw in that mentality that is saying everyone is doing nothing(although it's true or not), and that you are the best. It's bragging, explicit, rather than implicit.

You often find the very best or successful people, Guys like Warren Buffett, Steve Jobs, Carlos Slim. They don't really talk about getting ahead of others. Even Bill Gates was criticize for being incompetitive.

The concept or idea i posting here is that you love getting girls because you love it. and not because you need to get better over other people, and that's slight difference can be the gap between successful and the ultra successful. It's an inner game thing, where you have to know "you need to go with the flow, before everything else flows".

Zac