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It felt unfair sometimes

[GC]Jay

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Recently, I felt unfair. I read books, understanding the opposite sex and whatnot. I mean, girls can have sex anytime they wanted it while most guys (the AFC's) needed to learn tricks to get laid. Do you guys also felt the same? Sometimes, I also felt pathetic towards guys who really discuss things like we are doing right now in this board. Remind me if I'm wrong...cos recently I felt everything is unfair.
 

trashKENNUT

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Jay,

[GC]Jay said:
Remind me if I'm wrong...cos recently I felt everything is unfair.

It sucks. it is. Take a dip in the pool. and then come and work at it again. :) But i like to clear some things.

1)Women can get sex anytime?

Actually this is the same thing as "society" thing. I happen to feel fuck up recently, and then categorize everyone as "society". The thing is and if you happen to realize is everyone is fighting for everything. Since governments today are just as lost as their citizens....

Everyone is fighting for

1)LGBT rights
2)Muslim rights or any religions rights in America
3)Feminist rights
4)Women and working salary

and so on...

To make things short, Girls don't get sex from guys everytime. Because most guys are blur too, and not to forget, judgemental.

2)Learn tricks to get laid?

Sometimes you will get lucky. You just need to push for close. Skills is important but you do get lucky.

Zac
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Drck

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It might be different, just little bit. Girls have different desires. As it is classically described thousands of times, they desire sex with exciting Alpha males for short term, but they want stable and reasonable Beta males for long term.

Which has many implications.

Most guys were raised to be providers. In essence, somehow they don’t believe that quick sex with hot girl is possible, they still think that long term dating is needed to bed hot girl. They want to date and talk, they want to make things flow smoothly, they want to be comfortable and be assured by her before they make move. So even when he takes the girl in his place on the 1st date he still can’t push for sex, it doesn’t feel right to him. He talks and talks instead of pushing for sex. Which can be very frustrating for girls - she likes him a lot, she goes to his place because she is expecting intimacy - but he can’t deliver, he postpones things, he is too shy or inexperienced...

So she can’t actually have sex although she is open to it. Her expectations are crushed, she might get mad and frustrated, and she dumps the guy who actually has no clue what happened because in his eyes everything went so smooth with her... Also, if she is smarter and she sees that he is a great provider, she will let him wait for purpose. She will drain him emotionally - she’ll get him high and drops him low, she’ll make him feel great one day and then the next day she won’t know him. One day she is hot, second day cold… She knows this raises her price in his eyes, and she lets him work hard to get her. The guy is simple, he gets all confused, he doesn’t know what to do, he thinks about her more and more – and he fells in love… Now she got him tied up emotionally, and if she is ready to settle down he will be her great provider; he is almost helpless because he is in love, he has no clue how to fight against those overwhelming emotions, he is so afraid that she will reject him…

And then there is this so called Alpha, who wants sex only and who usually dumps her after sex. Here she needs to be quite careful otherwise she will be labeled as slut by her friends. He can pull it off, he can lead her to sex, but then he will dump her. She can’t get him with her emotional manipulation, he doesn’t care, which is very attractive to her. She has to work hard to keep him, and she can never be sure anyway because he is just an asshole…. Also very frustrating to her, if she decides to have sex it must be the way that no one will ever find out…

So even though she desires sex, she needs to be quite careful about who she chooses. If she is quality and faithful girl who really cares about her future, she doesn't have it easy either with many guys...
 

Richard

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GC,

Is it really unfair? or is that just how it seems to be?

You act like women don't "learn" to be attractive, sexy, etc. Everything you guys on the board strive to be is what girls already learned to do - just at a hell of a lot earlier age.

When you actually look at things in perspective - women have higher sex drives than men which actually makes them a bit more susceptible to having sex with you. Any single human who has learned to be attractive or sexy can all pretty much get sex whenever (hot girls or guys) but they all learn to do it. So it's not a matter of it being unfair because both sexes have pretty much equal access to the other when you know what you're doing - the difference is girls learn it young, and guys learn it after they realize they know nothing.

Any advanced male practitioner can get sex just as much as a hot chick can.

And to your last comment - why feel pathetic?

You need to shift your mindset buddy.
 
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